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CHAPTER 14. T HE F AMILY L IFE C YCLE. Building a Marital System. Will you openly show both positive and negative feelings? Will you each take responsibility for your won actions? Will you deal openly with problems?
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CHAPTER 14 THE FAMILY LIFE CYCLE
Building a Marital System • Will you openly show both positive and negative feelings? • Will you each take responsibility for your won actions? • Will you deal openly with problems? • Will you resolve normal conflicts without causing each other undue stress?
Building a Marital System (Cnt’d) • If and when you have children, will you freely admit to them when you are wrong? • Will you allow them to express views different from yours? • Will you consciously strive to maintain a warm and supportive atmosphere in the home?
Some Changes Over the Family Life Cycle as Perceived by Wives Source: Data from Stephen A. Anderson, et al., “Perceived Quality and Family Life-Cycle Categories: A Further Analysis” in Journal of Marriage and the Family 45:133.
Establishing a Pattern of Resolving Conflict • Deal with conflict in a way that is acceptable to each of you • The pattern you establish in the first year of marriage is likely to be the pattern you maintain throughout your marriage
Conflict Styles of Young, Middle-aged, and Retired Couples Source: Adapted from Miller, et al. 2003. .
Proportion Widowed, by Age: 2003 Source: U.S. Census Bureau 2004/2005:49.