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Negotiations : Now You’re at the Table, Ten More Things to Think About. Breakout Session # 308 Dr. Mike Criss Senior Fellow Fluor Corporation Date April 16, 2008 Time 9:40 – 10:40 AM. Ten More Things to Think About. How To Open The Negotiation What To Say What Not To Say
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Negotiations: Now You’re at the Table, Ten More Things to Think About Breakout Session # 308 Dr. Mike Criss Senior Fellow Fluor Corporation Date April 16, 2008 Time 9:40 – 10:40 AM
Ten More Things to Think About • How To Open The Negotiation • What To Say • What Not To Say • How To Tell How You Are Doing • What To Do When Things Go Wrong • When To Stop Talking • What To Think While You Are Listening • How To Get Unstuck • Details Are Important • How To Conclude The Negotiation
1. How To Open The Negotiation • Prepared • Establish Role • Buyer • Seller • Be Open But Reserved • Set the Stage to Listen • Be Professional
What To Say • Keep Focused on Negotiation • Talk About Facts • Don’t Back Away from Differences • Explore don’t confront • Be Honest
What Not To Say • To Much Chatter • Non related personal topics • Preamble or inflated language • Speeches • Condescending language • Talk over • Interrupt • Contradict
4. How To Tell How You Are Doing • If they get up and leave… • Too many side bar discussions • Too many conferences • They are not talking • You are constantly being interrupted • If it sounds like a conversation • If discussion stays with the topics • Collaborative
What To Do When Things Go Wrong • Stop talking • Start listening • Call a break • Conference • Side bar • Re-assess the participants • Stop the discussions • Review objectives
6. When To Stop Talking • 20/40/60 Rule • If you are talking more than 20 percent of the time, pay attention to how much more you talk. • If you are talking more than 40 percent of the time, slow down and start listening more. • If you are talking more than 60 percent of the time, Stop Talking!
7. What To Think While You Are Listening • Watch Body Language • Principles and Support • Look Beyond the Words • True meaning • Is What You Are Hearing a Tactic? • How Relevant is What’s Being Said? • Do you need to ask a question?
8. How To Get Unstuck • Ask A Question • Refocus discussion • Review Status of Discussions • Take a Break • Walk Out • Ask if There Is Someone Else To Talk To • End Discussions
9. Details Are Important • Watch the Little Things • Check the behaviors of all the participants • Watch the Effects that Small Numbers Have on the Total • Multiplier Effect • Check Unit Prices Against Quantities • Details of • Warranties, Service Agreements, Technical Agreements and Licensing Agreements
10. How To Conclude The Negotiation • Offer to Write the Agreement • Keep Contemporaneous Notes • Send copy to other team • Ask them to sign • Review Objectives • Confirm agreement
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