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Strict Parents (Drill Sergeants). Demands continuously Punishes harshly Values obedience Discourages independence Uses physical punishment over other alternatives and uses many harsh words Resorts to yelling and threatening Does not give reasonable choices. Permissive Parents (Turtles).
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Strict Parents (Drill Sergeants) • Demands continuously • Punishes harshly • Values obedience • Discourages independence • Uses physical punishment over other alternatives and uses many harsh words • Resorts to yelling and threatening • Does not give reasonable choices
Permissive Parents (Turtles) • Set no guidelines • Assert no authority • Remain distant • Remain uninvolved • Use excuses for not spending time with their child • Uses few words and fewer actions
Overprotective (Helicopters) • Do not allow children to experience consequences and learn from mistakes • Provides no structure, but complains • Pleads and begs child to get things done • Uses many words and actions that indicate that the child is not capable of making decisions
Moderate (Consultants) • Set reasonable standards (limits) • Have reasonable expectations • Encourage independence • Enforce rules fairly, firmly, and consistently • Allow children to make choices • Has a more democratic relationship • Recognizes the child’s individual needs and rights