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“Relationship Design MasterClass: How to Create the EXACT Type of Relationship You Want”

Man Transformation TeleClass. “Relationship Design MasterClass: How to Create the EXACT Type of Relationship You Want”. Man Transformation Review. First Part of this Tele-Class is a REVIEW of important concepts (MT was IMMENSE!)

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“Relationship Design MasterClass: How to Create the EXACT Type of Relationship You Want”

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  1. Man Transformation TeleClass “Relationship Design MasterClass: How to Create the EXACT Type of Relationship You Want”

  2. Man Transformation Review • First Part of this Tele-Class is a REVIEW of important concepts (MT was IMMENSE!) • Second part is “Relationship Design: How to design the EXACT type of relationships you want when meeting women.” • What’s the point of doing all this work to pick up a girl if you can’t form a relationship or even worse you develop a BAD relationship? • Third part at the very end is a special offer I’m making only to the participants on this call.

  3. Tony the Natural • 10 Years ago in NYC, met a natural named Tony • I showed him the lines and structures I was using back then. He said two things: • “If you have to think about all of that, you’ll never be good with women.” • “You’re making pick-up hard. It’s EASY” • “Being good with women is about HOW YOU THINK”

  4. Personal Mission • In studying thousands of clients and a bunch of naturals and pick-up artists I realized one thing. • Although they all use different methods and techniques, they can simultaneously be good • So it’s not about the technique or method, it’s something else. • The commonality is “HOW YOU THINK” • The whole study of “How You Think” has become the Attraction Code • If a person understands how to “Think” like a pick up artist they can study with anyone they like, or develop their own method • Made it my personal mission to “crack” the Attraction Code

  5. Attraction Code Clue #1 • When I got involved with the online community, I went out with a few guys • Guys would memorize material before we went out. • I was just trying to have fun, I would tease them about writing the stuff down etc. • When we went out, I did MUCH better. By filling their minds up with technique they were limiting their spontaneity • Attraction Code Clue #1: Whenever You Attach yourself to structure you limit your spontaneity. Spontaneity is King

  6. Attraction Code Clue #2 • Evolution of the Online Community • Hypnosis and NLP (bad mindset – need to trick her) • Routines and stories – be entertainment for her. (I’m not good enough so I need this extra stuff) • Attitude – busting and teasing. • What I do is work with your mindset and how you think. • As the community evolves, it becomes more natural, and more about improving yourself, rather than doing things to her to try to get a result • Attraction Code Clue #2: Attraction is felt by women but caused by your internal mindset

  7. Attraction Code Clue #3 • Before I discovered the Attraction Code I would have days where I would go out, and do poorly, and not know why • I would say the exact same thing as before and it wouldn’t work • I used to think that Attraction or game was “State-Based” • A Natural with women does not depend on his state to be good with women. Your state will always have fluctuations • When I got good, I had strange things happen like – pulling when I’m feeling terrible • Natural game is NO CRUTCHES. Go out with no money, no peacocking, no routines, even in a bad mood and still pull • Attraction Code Clue #3: You will never reach your true potential of gameif your results are still tied to your state

  8. The Attraction Code Defined • Intention -> Focus -> State -> Expression • Intention: What you want to happen at the core level • Focus: Where you are placing your attention • State: How you feel physically and emotionally at any point in time • Expression: How you appear to the outside world. • Have you ever wanted to express your intention and it didn’t come out the right way? Frustrating. • Game of “Telephone”

  9. Why? • If this system is so straightforward, why do so many people have such difficulty with it? • Because of STATE FRICTIONS • Intention -> Incorrect Focus -> State (Affected by Frictions) -> Distorted Expression • Intention -> Correct Focus -> State (Impervious to Frictions) -> Transparent Expression

  10. The 3 State Frictions • Attention Fixation • Focused on past incident • Attached to outcome • Attached to structure or technique • Social Pressure • Focused on other’s opinions • Put intention of others over your own • Intention Violation • Once you have a vision in life, don’t deviate from it • Every time you deviate, you cheat yourself of good feelings

  11. Relationship Design • Most guys get into relationships by accident. • Not only that, but they are entirely random and not designed consciously. • Sometimes a guy will just want a long term girlfriend and end up with a one night stand and other times a guy will want a casual sex partner and end up in an exclusive relationship. • This leads to a lot of unnecessary stress and arguments later on about expectations and both parties “wanting something that the other cannot give”.

  12. Properly Shaped Relationships • A Properly shaped relationship will give you confidence, power, energy, you will get more done in a day, feel healthier, happier and have better sex than you’ve ever had in your life. • The key to really making shaping work is to be consistent. • Don’t shape her to be spontaneous and in the moment and then get upset when you have difficulty trying to get her to be well behaved, stay at home and do nothing but sit by you while you watch TV. • If you want a girl that is sexually adventurous and open minded, be sure to shape her consistently from start to finish.

  13. Stay Consistent • In other words, keep your language consistent by knowing exactly which words you are going to use to shape her. Also provide plenty of examples of the types of behavior you are expecting. • A woman might think of “supportive” as telling her man that everything will work out OK. You might think of “supportive” as pushing you to meet your goals. • Be sure to provide concrete and exact examples as to what you expect.

  14. Break Her Comfort Zone • One of the most powerful things you could do to a woman is to inspire her to become a better person just to be with you. In other words, helping her to • adapt new behaviors, break out of her comfort zone or even break her own “rules” when she’s with you. • It represents an enormous amount of compliance and causes backwards rationalization that will nearly guarantee that her attraction is long-lasting.

  15. An Experiment in Shaping • Years ago there was a British psychologist who did a study on the power of suggestion. • He measured the grip of three men, and under waking conditions, the average grip strength was 101 lbs. • He then told them that their grip was weak. He looked at the results and said, “Yeah. I’m afraid your grip tested very weak today.”

  16. Relationship Example • A wife believes her husband is too serious and wants him to become more playful. • First, she could say to him “Dear. You are much too serious. I really wish you were more playful.” • The result would be the husband not only believing that he’s inherently a serious person, but also, because he wants to use his “free will” he will begin to become even more serious!

  17. The Correct Way • The correct way for her to “shape” her husband would be find a behavior of his that could be considered playful and say to him: “Wow you’re so playful, I really like that!” • As a result he will believe that he is a playful person, and also because he was given a great compliment, he will work to live up to it in the future.

  18. The 3 Methods of Shaping 1. Screening Questions and Setting Standards • The easiest and most direct way to shape a woman is to outright ask her if she has that characteristic and at the same time, imply the “correct” answer in the phrasing of your question.

  19. The 3 Methods of Shaping 2. Social Leverage and Establishing Themes • Another very powerful motivator for shaping a woman’s behavior is through the use of “social leverage”. • This means that you are using other people in your social circle as examples and demonstrations for how people in your life behave and treat you.

  20. The 3 Methods of Shaping 3. Selective Observation and Warm Reading • The final method of shaping and by far the most powerful is to treat her as if she is already acting the way you want her to act.

  21. Homework • Pay attention to how you talk to people. Are you pointing out things you don’t like and thus amplifying them? • Write down the exact character traits you want in a woman, that are suited to your relationship. Casual vs. Serious • Pay attention to your use of language around the women you want to shape, how can you make it more effective?

  22. Bonus for DYD Participants ONLY • Go to: http://www.AttractionCodebook.com/dyd to Redeem Man Transformation Bonuses. • Thanks for Listening!

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