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Explore the transformative power of habits in Dave Carter's Special Programs and Projects at AFM. Even Eagles Need a Push! Overcome obstacles through self-appreciation, vision, purpose, commitment, and contribution. Discover what lies within you with Oliver Wendell Holmes' insight and the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Be Proactive, Begin with the End in Mind, Put First Things First, Think Win-Win, Seek First to Understand, Synergize, and Sharpen the Saw. Dive into Responsibility, Vision, Prioritization, Win-Win Solutions, Empathetic Listening, Synergy, and Self-Care. Join us on the journey to personal growth and empowerment.
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Becoming More EffectiveThe 7 Habits Dave Carter Special Programs and Projects AFM
Confident, Empowered People • Self-appreciation • Vision • Purpose • Commitment • Contribution
What lies behind us, And what lies before us, Are tiny matters compared to What lies within us! Oliver Wendell Holmes
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People • Be Proactive • Begin with the end in mind • Put first things first • Think win-win • Seek first to understand, then be understood • Synergize • Sharpen the Saw
1. BE PROACTIVE Responsibility
1. BE PROACTIVE Responsibility Response Ability
Viktor Frankl 1940
Viktor Frankl 1905 - 1997
Circle of Influence Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence Circle of Concern
“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?” "That depends a good deal on where you want to get to," said the Cat. "I don’t much care where," said Alice. "Then it doesn’t matter which way you go," said the Cat.
3. PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST What is most important in your life?
PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST Urgent Not Urgent Important Not Important
PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST Urgent Not Urgent 30% 15% Important 50% 5% Not Important
PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST Urgent Not Urgent 25% 80% Important 15% -1% Not Important
4. THINK WIN-WIN Emotional Bank Account
WITHDRAWALS Angry words Unforgiving Cruel joke Ignoring Excluding DEPOSITS Understanding Apology Attention to little things Keeping commitments Consideration Emotional Bank Account
ABUNDANCE MENTALITY What do you do around here?
ABUNDANCE MENTALITY Anything I can to make the organization work better!
Courage and Consideration High CONSIDERATION Low High COURAGE
5. SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN BE UNDERSTOOD
Listening • Ignoring • Pretend listening • Selective listening • Attentive listening Your own frame of reference • Empathetic listening Within the other person’s frame of reference
Listening Don’t jump to conclusions!
Recharge Your Batteries • Physical • Exercise, nutrition, stress management • Emotional – Social • Relationships, service, empathy, security • Mental • Reading, planning, visualizing, writing • Spiritual • Values, commitment, study, meditation
Glenn Brenner 1948 - 1992
Everyday of Your Life Be the person you want to be! Make someone happy!