Self-Pleasuring with Another Guy: Some Tips

1. Self-Pleasuring with Another Guy: Some Tips By John Dugan

2. Most of the time, self-pleasuring is something a guy does by himself. Whether it’s because he is concerned about maintaining male organ health and knows that a guy needs to “use it or lose it,” or because he’s just in the mood to feel a little pleasure, a guy will make time for some self-pleasuring. Some men, though, are interested in what it might be like to self-stimulate along with another guy. For these men, the following tips might prove helpful. www.man1health.com

3. Straight? While self-pleasuring among two or more men is likely to happen if a man is gay, it’s interesting to note that many straight men have also self-stimulated with another guy. Exact statistics are hard to come by, but a recent CDC study indicated that 2.3% of men who identify as straight have engaged in oral or rear coupling with another man. This would seem to indicate that an even larger number of straight men have self-fondled with another guy – especially when considering such an activity may be even more common among puberty-aged males. Since gay men are likely to be in a situation where self-pleasuring with another man is more likely, the following tips are more geared toward the straight man who has an interest. www.man1health.com

4. Tips - Know the reasons. A man should be aware of why he has this interest, and what he wants to get out of it. Is he curious about how other men self-pleasure? Does he seek validation that self-fondling is “okay”? (It is, for the record!) Is he aroused by the thought of other men self-gratifying? Does he feel it is a bonding experience? And is he interested in self-play with men in general, or with a particular man or men? - Know the anticipated fellow self-stimulator. Is the preferred partner a stranger or someone who is known – a friend, a colleague? If known, is there something about him – comments he has made, for example – that suggest he may or may not be open to self-fondling with another man? www.man1health.com

5. - Know the approach. Depending upon the preferred partner, a guy may be direct or subtle. For example, if a stranger is wanted, paying a visit to a local adult arcade may allow a guy to meet other men who are willing to self-gratify openly while watching a peep show with another guy. If a friend, he might be open to simply asking, “Hey, I’ve always wondered what it’s like to self-stimulate with another guy. How about you?” Or is a more subtle approach called for? - Subtle. If subtle, be aware that this may be a several-step process, and it could derail at any moment. For some, it may be enough to say, “I have this awesome adult literature DVD, want to watch it?” Then, while sitting and viewing the adult movie, a man may begin to check for signs – i.e., he gently massages his midsection, the other massages his – that hopefully lead to mutual self-pleasuring. www.man1health.com

6. But it may also take several tries – starting out just by talking about what gets him hot one day, talking about favorite fantasies another, discussing a particular adult film star the next week, and finally moving on to a discussion about how much each man self-fondles. It’s also important to remember that these efforts may be met with a very strong rebuff – and a guy needs to be prepared for that and weigh that option before deciding to move forward.

7. Tips for self-pleasuring, whether alone or with a partner, should also include the usage of a first rate male organ health crème(health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) to keep the member looking impressive when it’s on display. Locate a crème that includes a range of vitamins, including A, B5, C, D and E, which when applied topically can give the manhood enormous benefits. It’s also suggested that the crème contain acetyl L carnitine, especially if the male organ is used roughly or frequently. This amino acid is superb at protecting against loss of manhood sensitivity from improper usage.