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Explore the benefits and alternatives to conventional funerals, burials, and cremation. Learn about home funerals and natural burials, their environmental impact, legal considerations, and how they provide a more personal and meaningful way to say goodbye. Save money and promote healing and closure.
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Introduction • Background • Workshop agenda: • Presentation – conventional end-of-life care, home funerals, natural burials • Q and A, Discussion www.eolalternatives.org
Funeral Homes • Usually called immediately to come remove the body • Family is presented with an array of options • 2017 average cost: • For a funeral/burial: $8700 + plot and cemetery fees • For funeral/cremation: $6200 • For direct cremation: $2500 Freeimages.com – NielsRameckers www.eolalternatives.org
Conventional Burial • Caskets, liners, and vaults • Harvesting/processing/transport of caskets • Water/fertilizer of cemetery lawns Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Environmental Impact – Conventional Burial www.eolalternatives.org
Embalming • 60% of corpses are embalmed • Became commonplace after Civil War • Purpose is mainly cosmetic CivilWarMed.org www.eolalternatives.org
Embalming Fluid • Ends up in the earth • Embalming fluid: mostly formaldehyde • Increases chances of leukemia, ALS and other autoimmune/ neurological diseases, early death for embalmers www.eolalternatives.org
Burial vs. Cremation - Percentage www.eolalternatives.org
Cremation • A greener option… but: • 2-4 hours and more than 1800 degrees • Releases 300-600 pounds of carbon dioxide into atmosphere • Also releases fine soot, sulfer dioxide, heavy metals, and mercury (from fillings) • Contributes up to .2 percent of annual global emissions of greenhouse gas www.eolalternatives.org http://www.wadenapj.com/business/4214209-karvonen-funeral-home-crematory-addition-complete
Ashes • Ashes: mostly calcium phosphates • High pH and salt content • Can be hazardous for delicate environments Nathalie Heydon, BBC www.eolalternatives.org
Ashes, cont. • For plantable soil, ashes can be mixed with a soil amendment (Bios Urn, Let Your Love Grow, The Living Urn) Letyourlovegrow.com Ashes buried in a biodegradable urn after 16 months . www.eolalternatives.org
So what are the alternatives to conventional funerals, burials, and cremation? www.eolalternatives.org
Video – Death DIY www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals • Home funerals and natural burials were the norm throughout most of human history http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/undertaking-l-a www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals, cont. • Legal in every state • Nine states require some involvement by a licensed funeral director (not WI) http://sacredcrossings.com/introduction-to-home-funerals-death-midwifery/ www.eolalternatives.org
Pertinent Laws • WI Statutes 69.18 (1)(a): "Any one of the following may move a corpse for the purpose of final disposition… A member of the decedent's immediate family who personally prepares for and conducts the final disposition of the decedent.“ • WI Administrative Code HFS 135.05(1)(b) "Any member of the immediate family of a deceased person may prepare the body for burial or other final disposition." www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals, cont Why do people choose home funerals? • a loving way to say goodbye • provide control over decisions • promote healing and closure • can facilitate bonding • save money http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/jeremys-death www.eolalternatives.org
What Home Funeral Families Can Legally Do • Act as the funeral director for immediate family • Care for and shelter deceased at home • File death certificates and other documents • Transport the body home, to a church, or to disposition • Hire a home funeral guide or licensed funeral director to assist Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals – legal and safe • Embalming is not required by any state or federal law • According to the CDC, NCID, PAHO & WHO, bodies do not pose an increased risk of infection after death • Cooling is key • Universal precautions only if necessary NHFA www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals – Paperwork • Can be complex • Unexpected deaths • Death certificates and other documents Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals and Hospice • If death occurs at home: family must call hospice ASAP. • A hospice medical provider will pronounce the death. • Death Certificate is initiated • Report for Final Disposition (transit permit) is initiated • If death occurs at a hospice facility rather than at home: Family initiates Notice of Removal of a Human Corpse in order for the hospice to release the body to them. • Family prepares and cares for the body, and makes all arrangements for final disposition. www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals, cont A good choice when: • Expected death • With enough planning and helpers May not be a good choice when: • Unexpected/violent deaths • Not enough planning • Family isn’t in agreement • Disposition will take longer than 3 days NHFA www.eolalternatives.org
Home Funerals, cont • Does not preclude a church service • Not for everyone • Big decision – needs agreement and education • End-of-life doulas can help • Is a spectrum, not either/or • Even just a couple of hours with the loved one can be beautiful www.eolalternatives.org
Using a Funeral Home • General Price List • Choose only services you want/need • Compare prices on www.parting.com https://mjmurphyfuneralhome.com/ www.eolalternatives.org
Using a Funeral Home, cont You can use any casket – hand-made or purchased elsewhere Casketkit.com Northwoods Casket Co Naturalburialcompany.com www.eolalternatives.org
Video – Natural Burial/Green Funeral ..\..\..\..\Desktop\Natural Burials and Green Funerals.mp4 www.eolalternatives.org
Natural (or Green) Burial • Greenest option available • No embalming • Buried 3-4 feet down • No vaults/liners • In biodegradable shrouds or caskets • No upright headstones • More family participation Erik S. Lesser/Chicago Tribune/MCT www.eolalternatives.org http://www.undertakingla.com/shroudscasketsandurns/
Natural (or Green) Burial www.eolalternatives.org
Natural Burial, cont. • Traditional • 54% of Americans indicate an interest • 72% of cemeteries report increased demand http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/resources/natural-burial www.eolalternatives.org
Natural, Hybrid, and Conservation Cemeteries • Hybrid cemeteries contain space for both conventional and natural burials • Conservation Cemeteries go a step further: use burial fees to pay for land acquisition, protection, restoration, and management • Land is protected forever with a conservation easement Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Natural (or Green) Burial - Where? • 160 green cemeteries in the US (250 in UK!) • Four locations in Southern WI • Milwaukee: Forest Home’s Prairie Rest and Greenwood Cemetery • Waukesha: Prairie Home • Verona: Natural Path • Barneveld: Circle Cemetery • Cost: $3,000- $4,500 for plot and interment • Private Property - possible ACB - Taken at Prairie Rest www.eolalternatives.org
Burial: Space Considerations • 2.5 million deaths per year (will increase to 3.6 deaths in next 20 years) • One million acres of cemetery land in the US • Already very expensive in some areas of the country • Issues abroad Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Burial: Space Considerations, cont. • What are we really purchasing? • Re-use and leasing • Upright burial • Vertical and underground cemeteries https://www.uprightburials.com.au/what-we-offer Credit: AP www.eolalternatives.org
Other Options • Alkaline Hydrolysis (flameless cremation) – 16 states • Promession - only Europe www.eolalternatives.org
Other Options, cont • Burial at Sea • Whole Body Donation • Mushroom Suits • Pods https://www.capsulamundi.it/en/ www.coeio.com www.eolalternatives.org
Other Options, cont • Constellation Park • Recomposition https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/the-future-of-death-could-be-a-shiny-cemetery-beneath-the-manhattan-bridge https://www.metropolismag.com/cities/the-urban-death-project-bringing-death-back-into-the-urban-realm/ www.eolalternatives.org
Post Cremation Options • Coral Reefs • Diamonds • Vinyl • Tattoo ink • Fireworks • Outer space • Etc… Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Everyone should have a plan • Advance planning - legal documents • Share wishes with loved ones (and hear theirs) • End-of-life doulas can help Pexels.com www.eolalternatives.org
Resources www.eolalternatives.org
Anna Benton • End of Life Alternatives • bentonannac@gmail.com • 414-736-1821 • www.eolalternatives.org www.eolalternatives.org