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THE MANTLE OF PARENTHOOD. Dr. Jobe Martin Biblical Discipleship Ministries www.biblicaldiscipleship.org www.evolutionofacreationist.com . A Brief Personal Testimony. In this talk I will be taking the position that the Bible is the Word of the one true God.
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THE MANTLE OF PARENTHOOD Dr. Jobe Martin Biblical Discipleship Ministries www.biblicaldiscipleship.org www.evolutionofacreationist.com
In this talk I will be taking the position that the Bible is the Word of the one true God. • I am assuming that you are establishing a Christian family. • There may be a family from some other faith, or no faith here. If you were giving this talk you would surely teach from your worldview as I will be doing today.
MANTLE (Webster) • 1. “A kind of cloak to be worn over other garments. • 2. Anything that cloaks, covers, envelops, conceals. • 3. The outer covering of a wall. • 4. The outer casing of a blast furnace. • 5. A covering of clay put over a wax model so as to form a mold when the wax is melted out.” • 6. Etc.
PARENTHOOD “The condition of being a parent; relation or authority of a parent.” • A condition • A relationship • An authority
SOME THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND: The God of the Bible is greater than our circumstances (1 John 4:4). God is sovereign (Nehemiah 9). God can cause all things to work together for good. God’s grace is always sufficient (1 Cor. 12:9,10).
Homeschooling is 24 hours a day. There is no such thing as a day off. Your spouse will never help you as much as you deserve and feel that you dearly need. There can be many tears. There are days that your feelings tell you “this is not worth it!” There are days when you are completely convinced that you are into a bottomless pit of absolute incompetence. Take heart…God’s mercies are new every morning!
1 Corinthians 12:9,10 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
The God of the Bible wants to take common, ordinary people like you and me, with our common, ordinary things and do uncommon, extraordinary things in His power and for His glory!
Uncommon, Extraordinary, in God’s power = GODLY PARENTING!
JUDGES 3:31 31 And after him was Shamgar the son of Anath, which slew of the Philistines six hundred men with an ox goad: and he also delivered Israel.
BIBLE STUDY HAS SEVERAL DIFFERENT PARTS: 1. Observation 2. Correlation 3. Interpretation 4. Application
OBSERVATION Observation=What do we see. • There was a man named Shamgar. • Shamgar came after someone. • His Father’s name was Anath. • He killed 600 Philistines. • He did it with an ox goad. • He delivered his country.
Correlation Correlation=What Scriptures relate. In the case of Shamgar there is one other Scripture that correlates and that is Judges 5:6: 6 “In the days of Shamgar the son of Anath,” This is all we know about Shamgar, but we do learn some things about the days during which Shamgar lived in Judges 5.
Correlation • “…the highways were unoccupied, and the travellers walked through byways. • 8 They chose new gods; • then was war in the gates: • was there a shield or spear seen among forty thousand in Israel?” Judges 5:6,8
INTERPRETATION Interpretation=What does it mean. • A Jewish man named Shamgar killed 600 Philistine soldiers. • He was probably a farmer since he knew how to use an ox goad. • He used an ox goad as a weapon because it appears that the weapons had been confiscated.
INTERPRETATION What is an ox goad? An ox goad is a stick or pole 6 to 8 feet long with a point on one end. How do you make an ox go? Our Creator, the Lord Jesus, made the ox with a sensitive spot where the hoof hooks onto the ankle. Touch that spot and the ox lifts its leg. When the leg comes down it is ahead of where it was, the other feet want to catch up and the ox is moving.
INTERPRETATION • Shamgar’s father’s name was Anath. • Anath was the Philistine God of sex and war. • Shamgar’s family had probably sold out to the pagan Philistine culture. • At the very least Shamgar’s grand parents had named his father with the name of a Philistine demon god. • And yet this common ordinary man with his common ordinary tool saved his country!
BIBLE STUDY HAS SEVERAL DIFFERENT PARTS: • Observation: what is seen 2. Correlation: where else 3. Interpretation: the meaning 4. Application: who, me?
APPLICATION • God wants to take common ordinary people with our common ordinary things and do uncommon, extraordinary things in His unmistakeable power and for His own glory! • Shamgar shows us the importance of over-coming family limitations. • He shows us the value of perserverence—he is out there every day putting his life on the line for his God, his family and his country.
APPLICATION • Shamgar shows us what Almighty God can do through a single person who is ready and willing to let our Lord do His will in our life, even if it means putting our life in jeopardy for His benefit and glory. • Shamgar displayed a singleness of purpose. • Shamgar is an example of unselfish servanthood.
APPLICATION • Are we ready and willing to put our lives on the line for our God, our families, and our country? • What is your oxgoad (weapon)—your life, your zeal, your words, pen, mind, computer, connections, family, church. • Are you ready and willing to make the prayer of your life, “Lord, yet not my will, but Thy will be done?”
Acts 13:36 • For David, after he had served his own generation by the will of God, fell on sleep, and was laid unto his Fathers, and saw corruption. • (David accomplished all that God had for him to do in his generation.)
John 12:27, 28a • Jesus said, “Now is my soul troubled; and what shall I say? Father, save me from this hour: but for this cause came I unto this hour. Father, glorify Thy name.”
Concluding Application • Jesus from eternity past, had a purpose and a plan. • David accomplished all that God had for him in his generaton. • What is your purpose, your plan, your focus for the remainder of your life? For your children? • Will you accomplish all that God has for you in your generation?
John 12:27, 28a • Jesus said, “Now is my soul troubled; and what shall I say? Father, save me from this hour: but for this cause came I unto this hour. Father, glorify Thy name.”
Missionary/Mission Field? • I led two lives as a youth. • I left home as a mission field, not a missionary. (How have you left home? How will your children leave home?) • Could our God use your time here to help you fullfil His purpose for you in your generation? • Are you practicing truth (John 3:21) and does your life display Colossians 1:27?
If we call ourselves “Christians” we must be a people who know and do what the Bible says! Godly man or woman Godly husband or wife Godly dad or mom And all of this is to bring eternal glory to our Lord.
WHERE DO WE START? • The mantle of parenthood must start with a clear understanding of what is true TRUTH. We must know and practice God’s Word, the Bible. • John 17:17 • John 8:32 • Hebrews 4:12 • Psalm 119 • John 12:48—It is God’s Word that will judge us at the last day!
WHERE DO WE START? Dads and Moms are you actually in the family of God? Are you a true POSSESSOR of the Christian Faith or just a professor of the Faith. Have you received the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Savior? But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. John 1:12, 13
WHERE DO WE START? Are we realizing our responsibility as parents to live out so great a salvation? We are the “Image Bearers” of the King. As true believers and image bearers a supernatural change has taken place! Can our family see this supernatural change, this enabling to exhibit the fruit of the Spirit in the every day activities of family life?
WHO AM I AS A CHRISTIAN? • Member of the family and household of God: Galatians 6:10; Ephesians 2:19 • Complete in Christ: Colossians 2:10 • Possessor of every spiritual blessing: Ephesians 1:3 • Born of the Spirit: John 3:6 • Baptized with the Spirit: 1 Cor. 12:13
WHO AM I AS AN IMAGE BEARER? • Indweltby the Holy Spirit: Jn. 7:39; Rom. 5:5, 8:9; 1 Cor. 3:16, 6:19; Gal. 4:6;1 Jn. 3:24 • Sealed by the Spirit: Eph. 4:30; 2 Cor. 1:22 • Given spiritual gifts: 1 Cor. 12-14; Rom. 12 • We are IN CHRIST: Jn. 14:20; Col. 1:27 • A member in Christ’s body: 1 Cor. 12:13 • A branch in the Vine: John 15:5
Recipientof eternal life: John 3:15 and 16, John 10:28, 1 John 5:11-13 • Seated in heavenly places: Eph. 2:6 • Minister of the N.T.: 2 Cor. 3:6 • Ambassador of Christ: 2 Cor. 5:20 • A living letter: 2 Cor. 3:3 • Aminister (servant) of God: 2Cor. 6:4 • God’s inheritance: Eph. 1:18 • Redeemed: Rom. 3:24; Col. 1:14; 1 Pet. 1:18
Christians are God’s “house” on earth: 1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor. 5:1 • An heir of God: Rom. 8:17; 1 Pet. 1:4 • Joint heir of Christ: Rom. 8:17; Heb. 9:15 • Have access to God: Rom. 5:2; Eph 2:18;Heb. 4:16, 10:19 • A called and protected people: Titus 2:14, 1 Peter 2:9 • Delivered from the power of sin: Rom. 6:2; Phil. 3:3; Col. 2:11
A living stone: Eph. 2:21,22; 1 Pet. 2:5 • A sheep in His flock: John 10:27-29 • A part of Christ’s bride: Eph. 5:25-27 • A priest in God’s Kingdom: 1 Pet. 2:9 • A new creature: 2 Cor. 5:17 • A child of light: Eph. 5:8; 1 Thess.5:4,5 • In the Spirit: Romans 8:9 • Positionally glorified: Romans 8:30
Delivered from the kingdom of Satan: Colossians 1:13, 2:15 • Foreknown: Acts: 2:23; Rom. 8:29; 1 Pet. 1:2 • Elect: Rom. 8:33; Col. 3:12; Tit. 1:1; 1 Pet. 1:2 • Predestined: Rom. 8:29; Eph. 1:5,11 • Chosen: Matt. 22:14; 1 Pet. 2:4 • Called: Matt. 22:14; 1Thess. 5:24 • Reconciled by God: 2 Cor. 5:18,19; Col. 1:20 • Reconciled to God: Rom. 5:10; 2 Cor.5:20
Redeemed how I love to proclaim it, redeemed by the blood of the lamb! Rom3:24; Col 1:14 • All condemnation removed: Jn5:24;Rom8:1 • Crucified with Christ:Rom. 6:6; Gal. 6:20 • Dead with Christ: Ro 6:8; Col 3:3; 1 Pt 2:24 • Buried with Christ: Rom. 6:4; Col. 2:12 • Raised with Christ: Rom. 6:4; Col. 3:1 • Regenerated: Jn. 13:10; 1 Cor. 6:1; Tit. 3:5 • Born Again: Jn. 3:7; 1 Pet. 1:23
I am forgivenall my sins!!! Eph. 1:7, 4:32; Colossians 1:14, 2:13, 3:13 • Child of God: Gal 3:26; Jn 1:12; 2Cor 6:18 • A New Creation: 2Cor 5:17; Gal 6:15; Eph 2:10 • Adopted: Rom. 8:15,23; Eph. 1:5 • Acceptable to God: Eph. 1:6; 1 Pet. 2:5 • Made RighteousRo 3:22; 2Cor 5:21; Phil 3:9 • Perfected forever:Hebrews 10:14 • Justified: Ro 3:24;5:1,9; 8:30; 1Cor 6:11 Tit 3:7
We have heavenly citizenship: Luke 10:20; Eph. 2:13,19; Phil. 3:20 • Within the “much more” care of God: Romans 5:9,10 • Object of God’s love: Eph. 2:4, 5:2 • Object of God’s power: Eph. 1:19; Phil. 2:13 • Object of His faithfulness: Phil 1:6; Heb 13:5,6 • Object of God’s peace: John 14:27 • Object of God’s consolation: 2Thess 2:16
Object of God’s intercession: Romans 8:34; Hebrews 7:25 • Object of God’s grace: • For salvation: Ephesians 2:8,9 • For keeping: Rom. 5:2; 1Pet. 1:5 • For instruction: Titus 2:12 These 64 identifying distinctives are who we are as the image bearers of the Lord Jesus Christ. All of this starts at home.
WHERE DO WE START? • Perhaps a good place to start (today) the first day of the rest of your life is to examine and test yourself to see if you are a true Christian. Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith. 2 Corinthians 13:5
HOW DO WE PERSEVERE? Whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope. 5Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one toward another according to Christ Jesus: 6That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. 7Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God. Romans 15:4-7
HOW DO WE PERSEVERE? • We must be aware of the intense spiritual battle which engages us, to destroy us individually, destroy our marriages, steal our children and reek havoc in the church. Ephesians 6:10-19
2 CORINTHIANS 10:12 For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.
God’s word is our standard—we must keep our eyes fixed on things above not on things that are on the earth. Keep looking ahead. • Keep the eternal perspective! • 27Why sayest thou, O Jacob, and speakest, O Israel, My way is hid from the LORD, and my judgment is passed over from my God? 28Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding. 29He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Isaiah 40:27-29
HOW DO WE PERSEVERE? • Depravity is now the accepted lifestyle and has penetrated the church. • Good is evil and evil is good (Isaiah 5:20). • Immorality is accepted • Adultery is accepted • Homosexual lifestyle is accepted • Lying and cheating are accepted Biblical Truth is being severely compromised!
The Depravity Factor • Two of the great dangers we face as parents: • 1. becoming so immunized to apostasy and evil that it seems normal and no longer alarming • 2. becoming discouraged and deciding that there is no use in standing up to such overwhelming evil. So don’t lose your perspective—godly parenting is more than worth the costs, sacrifices, and inconveniences.