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Learn effective strategies for managing unexpected problems that arise when balancing work and family responsibilities. Discover how to create a safety net and develop a "Plan B" to deal with challenging situations. Explore real-life scenarios and find solutions to common work-related issues. Build a strong support network and gain valuable insights for achieving success in both areas of life.
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Pathways to SuccessHandling Work and Family--Unexpected Problems(lesson #7) By Sissy Osteen, Ph.D., CFP PowerPoint by Cindy Clampet Revised 2017
Today you will learn: • What to do when unexpected problems occur
Family and work responsibilities • When people work, they really have two jobs. Two jobs can mean twice the problems or twice the joy. • Sometimes family situations make it difficult to work. • Sometimes work situations make it difficult to take care of home duties. • In order to be able balance the responsibilities of both, you need to have a safety net.
Is it really a problem? • What is happening? • Why or how is it happening? • What are some ways to change what is happening? • Will your plan to change things work?
Then…Make the change! • After thinking of things you could change to make your problem go away, make the change, and think about how useful the change was. Will it work again? • Discuss some problems you or a friend have had at work. Can these be solved? How? • Remember these, we will come back to them later…
3 people and their problems • Read through the three problems on page 4 of your booklet. What can these people do to solve their problems? • Do these people have a safety net? Or a “Plan B?”
Crisis Problems • Some problems may feel too big to handle, but there is usually a way to handle them. • Doing nothing about huge problems usually makes them get worse • Think about the problems and search for answers. • The difference in a problem and a crisis is the way we look at it, and what we think about and do about it.
Problems and solutions • Read the solutions on page 6-8 of your booklet. • Are there different ways of looking at problems? • If all of these people had a “plan B” what would it be?
Don’t let problems get worse • Ignoring a problem usually makes it worse • Most problems have a solutions • Solving our own problems makes life more pleasant and makes us proud of ourselves • We know we have what it takes to be successful in life • Avoid problems or make them easier to solve by: • Advance planning • Always having a “Plan B” • Having a support network—knowing who we can count on to help
Good Choices… • To avoid problems, think ahead of time what might happen and how we will react (and have a Plan B) • Advance planning includes: • Budgeting money and time • Having good habits to keep us healthy • Not doing things that can harm us.
Advance Planning • Look on page 11 of your booklet and come up with some ways that people can use advance planning skills to make life easier. Write them in your booklet.
Plan B • Plan B is what you fall back on when Plan A (advance planning) isn’t going to work. • A personal support network is very important in setting up your Plan B. Friends encourage and help each other during hard times! • How could friends help NaTasha, Roberto and Emily? Read page 13 in your booklet and discuss. • (friends support each other!)