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Turning it Upside down-Relational Aggression- Bullying in the workplace RN-AIM Annual Meeting September 26,2013. Karen A Paulosky RN, BSN, MSN Clinical Manager Munson Medical Center.
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Turning it Upside down-Relational Aggression- Bullying in the workplaceRN-AIM Annual Meeting September 26,2013 Karen A Paulosky RN, BSN, MSN Clinical Manager Munson Medical Center
To review personal, interpersonal and group strategies by exploring bullying effects and tools to improve outcomes of relational aggression (RA), workplace bullying (WPB) or Incivility (IC) Goal
Objectives • Differentiate between relational aggression (RA), workplace bullying (WPB) & incivility (IC). • Evaluate the long term effects of being exposed to a “Chronic Mary” • Explain the theme, “Why me? What have I done wrong?” • Define the role of a “middler”. • Explore employer’s response to claims of bullying in the workplace. Describe an Individual Action • Develop an action plan for a given scenario
Definition of terms • Relational Aggression ( RA)- • Using words as weapons- hypercritical, depreciating or severe • Linked to adverse physical and psychological outcomes • Female bullying
Definition of Terms • Work Place Bullying (WPB)- • Workplace Bullying Institute – “repeated health-harming, mistreatment of one or more persons (the targets) by one or more perpetrators.” • Verbal, Offensive conduct/behaviors (including nonverbal)which are threatening, humiliating or intimidating • Deliberate, Disrespectful and Repeated
Definition of terms • 3. Incivility- 3 parts • Rude or discourteous speech or behavior that is disruptive, i.e. eye rolling, arm-crossing, walking away, bullying, taunting, intimidation. Joy stealing: Setting up, devaluing, misrepresenting, lying, shaming, breaking boundaries, splitting, mandating, blaming, silencing • Resulting: Psychological or physiological distress • Minor encounters can escalate into more threatening situations.
What Chronic Mary’s Cost Us: • 37% of US Workforce or 54 million Americans report repeated abusive behavior at work • 41% say they have been psychologically harassed at work • 50% of all workers have missed time from work because of harassing behavior directed at them • 70-80% report recurring rudeness and incivility at work • 82% of individuals targeted for workplace harassment leave their jobs
Effects of RA , WPB, IC • Novice Nurse Studies*- Novice Nurse Productivity Following Workplace Bullying and Turnover of New Graduate Nurses in Their First Job Using Survival Analysis • Link to increased intent to leave • Poor Patient Outcomes • Dissatisfaction with Interpersonal Relationships • Negative affect on Novice Nurse Productivity and handling workload • *Berry, P., Gillespie, G., Gates ,D. & Schafer, J. Journal of Nursing Scholarship , 2012,,44:1, 80-87 • *Cho, S-H., Lee, J., Mark, B., Yun, S-C, Journal of Nursing Scholarship, 2012 44:1, 63-70. Sigma Theta Tau
3 Minute Discussion Topic • Pair up with a partner • Share one example of relational aggression, bullying or incivility that you have seen or experienced in your career
How workplace bullying creates an unhealthy workplace • Toxic gossip • Rumors • Big HIM – humiliation, intimidation, and manipulative behaviors
LONG TERM Exposure creates an unhealthy workplace • Increased stress, body weight, heart disease, accidents • Increased cost of recruiting, onboarding and training • Decreased production, motivation, morale, engagement, customer service, image, patient loyalty and referrals
Chronic Mary’s who are they?“Why me? What have I done wrong?” • One word answer – nothing! What to do: • Collecting and recording data • 1. credible list – 4 or 5 behaviors • 2. meet in neutral place
“Middler” • Those who watch RA but don’t act • OUCH • Who are your friends? • Caring and nurturing relational behaviors are more frequently observed.
Typical employer’s response to claims of bullying in the workplace. • Ignore • Circumvent the real problem • Cost on morale, productivity, business, patient return and safety
Addressing Incivility • Individual who bears witness or is affected by RA/WPB/IS • Emphasis on using assertive behavioral terms to address the disruptive behaviors • File a report, met with supervisor or mediator • Each person alternates detailing his or her view of the situation • Adhere to civility rules • Goal to find an interest-based resolution, clear expectations and agreement on who is doing what by when • Seek common ground and pursue compromise • Follow-up meeting to evaluate progress to resolve issue
Addressing Incivility • The individual displaying uncivil behaviors • Emphasis for corrective actions will be placed on the behavior not the person • Verbal warning • Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) • Education on financial, human, organizational costs that result from disruptive behavior and specific behavioral requirements ( i.e. self-control classes, stress management etc.) and associated time frames for improvement
Individual action, peer action, corporate action • Individual- Data on RA/WPB person • Peer-Commitment to My Co-Workers- Card from Relationship-based care • Corporate- • Employee Handbook, Polices and how you are supported if you are a target • Nursing Transition to Practice Series
Commitment To My Co-Workers • I will accept responsibility for establishing and maintaining healthy interpersonal relationships with you and every other member of this team. • I will talk with you promptly if I am having a problem with you. The only time I will discuss it with another person is when I need advise or help in deciding how to communicate with you appropriately.
Commitment to My Co-Workers • I will establish and maintain a relationship of functional trust with you and every other member of this team. My relationships with each of you will be equally respectful, regardless of job titles or levels of educational preparation. • I will not engage in the “3B’s” ( Bickering, Back0biting, Blaming). I will practice the “3C’s” ( Caring, Committing, Collaborating) in my relationship with you and ask you do the same with me.
Commitment to My Co-Workers • I will not complain about another team member and ask you not to as well. If I hear you doing so, I will ask you to talk to that person. • I will accept you as you are today, forgiving the past problems and ask you to do the same with me. • I will be committed to finding solutions to problems rather than complaining about them or blaming someone for them, and ask you to do the same.
Commitment to My Co-Workers • I will affirm your contribution to the quality of our service. • I will remember that neither of us is perfect, and that human errors are opportunities, not for shame or guilt but for forgiveness and growth. - Complied by Marie Manthey
15 minute 4 Person Discussion Topic and Action Plan • Review who will be the “target” and “bully” based on the previous discussed scenario • Third person is the manager/facilitator and forth person is the observer • Role play a meeting and then discuss the roles and how it played out
Resource on Line and Books • Bully Free at Work- Valarie Cade • Book and Free E course • BullyFreeAtWork.com • Crucial Conversation Tools- K Patterson, J Grenny, R McCMillan, A Switzler • Toxic Nursing: Managing Bullying, Bad Attitudes and Total Turmoil Cheryl Dellasega & Rebecca L Volpe Sigma Theta Tau 2013 • Creating & sustaining civility in nursing education Cynthia Clark Sigma Theta Tau 2013