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STEP 1: IDENTIFY THE EMOTION. Emotive Cognition (E) = Intentional Object (O) Rating (R)E = (O R) . Some definitions of common emotions:. Anger: The object of this emotion is something that someone did. You strongly, negatively rate the action itself or the person who did it.Guilt: The ob
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1. FIVE STEPS OF LOGIC BASED THERAPY
2. STEP 1: IDENTIFY THE EMOTION Emotive Cognition (E) = Intentional Object (O) + Rating (R)
E = (O + R)
3. Some definitions of common emotions: Anger: The object of this emotion is something that someone did. You strongly, negatively rate the action itself or the person who did it.
Guilt: The object of this emotion is a moral principle, which you perceive yourself to have violated. You strongly condemn the perceived violation or yourself for the perceived violation.
Depression: The object of this emotion is an event or state of affairs that you strongly, negatively rate, and, on the basis of which, you bleakly perceive your own existence.
Grief: The object of this emotion is the loss of someone (a person or animal) whom you strongly, positively rate, and, without whom, you bleakly perceive your own existence.
Anxiety: The object of this emotion is a future event or possible future event, which you think will or might have serious, negative consequences.
4. STEP 2: IDENTIFY THE PREMISES OF THE EMOTIONAL REASONING Rule: If anyone lies to me, then he/she’s totally worthless
Report: John lied to me
Emotion: Anger:
Object: John lied to me
Rating: John’s totally worthless
5. STEP 3: REFUTING YOUR IRRATIONAL PREMISES You can think of a counter-example to the premise;
The premise lacks sufficient evidence;
The premise has unacceptable consequences;
The premise involves an inconsistency.
6. Rule: If anyone lies to me, then he/she’s totally worthless REFUTATION:
If this rule is true, then that makes all of us worthless because all of us have invariably told a lie.
7. Rule: If you feel upset, then you might as well just accept it because it’s not in your control anyway. REFUTATION: If true, then you are no different than a biological machine, a robotic creature that automatically responds to external stimuli and lacks free will.
8. STEP 4: FINDING ANTIDOTES Rule: If anyone lies to me, then he/she’s totally worthless
Antidote: Stick to rating people’s actions and not the person.
“He did something bad but that doesn’t mean HE is bad.”
9. Rule: If you feel upset, then you might as well just accept it because it’s not in your control anyway.
Antidote: You should prove your freedom to yourself—prove to yourself that you are more than just some pre-programmed biological mechanism--by resisting your emotion--both behaviorally and cognitively.
10. Step 5: Exercising Willpower in Overcoming Cognitive Dissonance Aristotle asked, “How can a man fail in self-restraint when believing correctly that what he does is wrong?”
HIS ANSWER: Weakness of the will!
11. WHAT IS THIS WILLPOWER? AN INTERNAL “MUSCLE” THAT CAN BE STRENGTHENED THROUGH PRACTICE AND EFFORT MUCH LIKE ANY OTHER MUSCLE.
12. SUMMING UP: “ARISTOTLE’S ANTIDOTE” TO EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCE If you are wrought with frustration
Identify your vexation
File your report, and find your rule
On them, try a refutation
Whatever premise you refute
Of its flaw, take careful note
And treat it with an antidote.
Flex your willpower hard and free
And make yourself act rationally.