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Homework. A Parent’s Guide To Helping Out Without Freaking Out. Neil McNerney, LPC www.neilmcnerney.com. Student Approach To School. The It’s Not My Fault Student. The Procrastinator. The Defiant Student. The Responsible Student. The Unmotivated. The Blamer. The Anxious Student.
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Homework A Parent’s Guide To Helping Out Without Freaking Out Neil McNerney, LPC www.neilmcnerney.com
Student Approach To School The It’s Not My Fault Student The Procrastinator The Defiant Student The Responsible Student The Unmotivated The Blamer The Anxious Student The Disorganized
Parent Leadership Roles Supporter Consultant Boss
Supporter • Hit and Run Praise • Don’t Over-Do It
Consultant • Tentative • Shoulder – to – Shoulder • Attitude of Child
Boss Start or Stop Behavior? Punishment Reward Stop Start
Leadership • Blamer • Complainer • Defiant • Disorganized • Worried • Sneaky • Unmotivated • Procrastinator • Supporter • Consultant • Boss
Staff Trainings • PTA/PTO Parent Presentations
Students were asked: If you could tell your parent one thing about schoolwork and how they could be more helpful, what would it be? This is what they said…
Don't nag me. I know I need to do it.
Stop worrying about when I start my projects or when I finish them.
Don’t tell me right when I get home from SEVEN HOURS OF SCHOOL to do more work. Give me a break, then I’ll do it.
I wish my parents understood that sometimes my friends ARE more important than homework
Stop checking the school website because you think I’m lying about my homework Trust me a little more
Trust me a little more. Even though I don’t want to, I will do my homework because I don’t want a lower grade.
Trust me and let me do what I want. Trust me that I want to get good grades too.