Financial Planning – The Next Step: Merging Your Clients Money With Their Lives

1. Financial Planning – The Next Step:Merging Your Clients Money With Their Lives

2. “The rational mind is a faithful servant; the intuitive mind a sacred gift. The paradox of modern life is that we have begun to worship the servant and defile the Devine.”

3. Change is Necessary • 9/11 • Corporate Scandals • Commoditization

4. Will some of us become the blacksmiths of the 21th century?

5. The Evolving Profession of Financial Life Planning

6. Problems Created by Advisors • Assumptions • Not enough emphasis on qualitative discovery • Ignoring the fact that money is an emotional issue for most people

7. Typical Assumptions

8. The typical financial planning fact-finder:Lots of quantitative data and not enough qualitative discovery

9. If Money is an Emotional Issue for Most People: How can we ignore that if we are to give good advice about money?

10. You Can’t Solve Interior Issues With Exterior Solutions

11. The Financial Planning Process is not about our ideas as much as it is about the life of our client and how our ideas might fit that life.

12. Are financial planners part of the problem or part of the solution?

13. Money Managers vs. Financial Planners

14. Is the Emperor Naked?

15. Dalbar Study 2.57% vs. 12.22%

16. What Do Doctors Need to Know Before Treating Patients? • Medical History • Family History • Current Symptoms • Other Treatments

17. And Good Doctors Actually Listen!

18. What Financial Planners Need to Know • Family Money History • Past Money Experiences • Money Attitudes • Present Issues • Future Concerns • Current and Expected Transitions

19. “Values are intangible. Your job is to uncover these values-based emotions so people can see the relationship between making smart financial decisions and fulfilling their life values. It’s more about life than money.” Bill Bachrach

20. “The ability to focus on the other person is evident in virtually all of the trusted advisors we have known.” The Trusted Advisor, by Maister, Green, and Galford

21. The Old Way of Delivering Financial Services

22. The New Way

23. Where should the dialogue start?

24. “The boundaries between culture and economy are blurring as we move from an information economy to one oriented toward capturing attention and providing meaningful experiences…. You are far more likely to get my attention if you demonstrate you know who I am and what my aspirations are.” ASAE

25. “The professional I envision may be referred to as a ‘personal CFO’, ‘coach’, ‘trusted advisor’, or some other title describing the ongoing dialogue and joint decision making to meet a client’s needs. Let me emphasize what I have always believed: affluent clients want a personal relationship built on trust. That can never be delivered over the web. Technology-based solutions will succeed, but not at our expense.” Dan Wheeler, DFA

26. “It’s not the questions you ask them that matter – it’s the questions they ask you!”

27. Qualitative Discovery

28. The Initial Contact

30. Defining True Wealth • I define success in my working life as: • I define success in my family life as: • I define balance in my life as: • I define success in my family life as: • I hope to be remembered someday as:

31. My Vision of the Future • How I visualize my life in my 60’s 70’s and 88’s: • How I plan to change my lifestyle (if at all) if I retire: • If I intend to retire, what will I miss most about the job • I currently have: • My biggest fears about the future: • What I most look forward to about the future • The top things I would like to accomplish/experience • in my lifetime

32. Life Transitions Profile • Work/Career • Family • Financial • Charitable/Legacy

33. Interview Questions

34. Questions • Tell me about your family when you were growing up • Was money discussed at the dinner table? • What messages, direct or indirect, did you receive from you mother regarding money? • What messages did you receive from your father? • Describe your parents’ financial history. • What financial values and/or discussions with your parents continue to affect you today?

35. Questions Continued • What is your first memory of money? • What was learned from that experience? • Describe a painful memory about money • Describe a joyful memory about money • Describe your work history • What were some of the financial decisions you have made in the past that you regret?

36. Questions Continued • What were some of the best financial decisions you have made? • What are your major beliefs about money? • What are your positive feelings about money? • What are some of your negative feelings about money? • What do you do to deal with those feelings? • How satisfied are you with the way you are dealing with those feelings?

37. Questions Continued • What does financial independence mean to you? • How do you feel about passing assets to heirs? • What part does philanthropy and charitable giving play in your value system? • What would be a desired outcome over the course of these initial meetings? • During our review three years from now, what will need to have happened between now and then for you to feel satisfied with your progress?

38. Are we practicing psychology?

39. Three Scenarios

40. Scenario #1 Imagine that you have all the money you need now and in the future. What will you do with it? How will you live your life? What will you change? Let yourself dream. Don’t hold back. Describe a life that is complete and richly yours. George Kinder, Seven Stages ofMoney Maturity

41. Scenario #2 You have just come from a visit to the doctor who told you that you have five years to live. The good part is that you won’t ever feel sick. The bad part is that you will have no notice of the moment of your death. As you let the emotional impact of the situation sink in, ask yourself these questions: How will you change your life? What will you choose to do in the finite amount of time you have remaining? George Kinder, Seven Stages ofMoney Maturity

42. Scenario #3 This time the doctor told you that you have only one day left in your life. The question you have now is not how to spend the hours that remain. Instead, ask yourself what am I feeling? What are my regrets and longings? What dreams will be left unfulfilled? What do I wish I had finished or had been? What do I wish I had done? George Kinder, Seven Stages ofMoney Maturity

46. “As sought after decision makers and opinion leaders, you are in a very unique position in a new helping profession that’s all about optimizing human lives” Jim Cecil

47. Financial Life Planners: • Ask the right questions • Listen carefully to the answers • Help their clients focus on their real life goals • Care enough to put their clients’ interests first • And they…

48. Improve the Quality of Their Clients’ Lives!

49. “Consciously or unconsciously, every one of us renders some sort of service. If we cultivate the habit of doing this service deliberately, our desire for service will make, not only our own happiness, but that of the world at large.” Gandhi