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Getting By or Getting Better “The Power of Personal Choice”

Getting By or Getting Better “The Power of Personal Choice”. Presented by Wayne Hulley. Getting the Results We Deserve. Personal Perceptions. See. Results Achieved. Tell Ourselves A New Story. Get. Do. Actions Taken. Getting By or Getting Better. Getting By .

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Getting By or Getting Better “The Power of Personal Choice”

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  1. Getting By or Getting Better “The Power of Personal Choice” Presented by Wayne Hulley

  2. Getting the Results We Deserve Personal Perceptions See Results Achieved Tell Ourselves A New Story Get Do Actions Taken

  3. Getting By or Getting Better Getting By Head Compliance Getting Better Head& Heart Commitment

  4. Getting Better Is A Choice Choice, not chance, determines human destiny Stimulus Response Choice Stimulus Response The quality of your choices determines your level of RESPONSE -ABILITY

  5. Getting Better By Choice Present Situation Future Situation Response Circle of Influence Circle of Concern Adapted – Stephen Covey – 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

  6. Getting Better = Change Is It Worth Doing? Change Your Mind Can I Do It? Change Your Results Change Your Behavior Monitor and Feedback Deliberate Practice

  7. Is It Worth Doing? Personal Motivation – The Fire Within To Live To Love To Leave A Legacy To Learn Adapted – Stephen Covey – 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

  8. Getting Better - Can I Do It? Focus on the Important Be Nice Getting Better Be a Leader Take Time Manage Emotions

  9. The Power Of Nice 1. Nice is luckier in love. Low-key, congenial people have one-half the divorce rate – University of Toronto 2. Nice makes more money. People who are cheerful, helpful and possess a service mindset get promoted 71% more. Primal Leadership 3. Nice is healthier. Americans who volunteer and provide support to others have a 60% lower premature death rate. University of Michigan 4. Nice spends less time in court. Doctors who spent an average of 3 minutes longer with a patient never got sued. Malcolm Gadwell - Blink The Power of Nice – Thaler and Koval – Doubleday - 2006

  10. Find Time For the Important Others You Not Urgent Urgent Q2 Leadership Q1 Management Important Q3 Deception Q4 Waste Not Important Adapted – Stephen Covey – 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

  11. Take Time We take time on things that matter to us. When we take time with people to listen, support and encourage we are telling them we care. Children spell love, TIME.

  12. Emotional Intelligence Model What I See What I Do Personal Competence Self Management Self Awareness Social Competence Social Awareness Relationship Management

  13. Getting Better By Being a Leader Leaders are influencers. Influencers find strategies to that lead to change in themselves, others and situations.

  14. Influence and Leadership Character Who you are Positive Change Influence Competence What you know and can do Leadership

  15. Choosing Not To Lead “Getting By” • Action Choices • Complain • Bad Mouth • Subvert • Join Others • Transfer Result Negative Situation Continues NegativeSituation

  16. Choosing To Lead “Getting Better” • Action Choices • Work In Your Circle of Influence • Offer Alternatives • Implement Incremental Actions Result Opportunity For Positive Change Negative Situation

  17. Your Ability To Influence Who You Are What You Can Do Principle Based Position/Title Based • Integrity • Work Ethic • Treatment of Others • Motives • Level of Initiative • Contribution • Discipline • Awards • Fame • Ranking • Wealth • Rare Accomplishments • Compared With Others

  18. Getting Better – Be Honest With Yourself The B Theory High Bumble Bees Honey Bees Motivation Drones S.O.B.’S Low High Skills

  19. AND THEN SOME…these three little words are the secret to success. Successful people always do what is expected…and then some. “They are thoughtful of others, they are considerate and kind…and then some. They meet their responsibilities fairly and squarely…and then some. They are good friends and helpful neighbors…and then some. They can be counted on in an emergency…and then some. I am thankful for people like this, for they make the world a better place. Their spirit of service is summed up in these three little words… And then some.” Carl Holmes

  20. Eight Questions A Day 1. Do I want to be right or kind? 2. Will it matter a year from now? How about 100 years from now? 3. If I had an extra hour a day what would I do with it? How could I create an extra hour a day? 4. Is life an emergency? 5. When someone throws me the ball do I have to catch it? 6. When I die who will care? 7. Do I wrap my life around another’s weakness? 8. Do I live each day as if it were my last? It may be!

  21. The Most Critical Question When Getting Better Matters What is it you do everyday that makes others’ lives better?

  22. The Dash D.O.B. D.O.D. “The Difference We Make in Our Lifetime”

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