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Goals. TIME & CHOICE. Life has little regard for those who waste time. Busy - ness Don’t just engage in activity without knowing where you are going. Why Set Goals?. What do we become when we set goals? You are setting the foundation of a great work: Your Life.
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TIME & CHOICE • Life has little regard for those who waste time. • Busy-ness • Don’t just engage in activity without knowing where you are going.
Why Set Goals? • What do we become when we set goals? • You are setting the foundation of a great work: Your Life. • The key to life is to find happiness. MOST OF US WANT TO BE HAPPY • Self-pity is the most negative quality in the human spirit.
You have chosen your career path. What are your goals not? Don’t think this won’t happen to you? What if you find yourself here?
What will your job require of you? Deodorant quality control engineer…you never know An ammunitions sight tester
How can I be professional working under these conditions!? Creativity can only go so far…right?
How can you be professional no matter what comes your way? ? Office Professional Dental Hygienists A Nurse, P.A., or Doctor
Our Goal Toward Being Professional • Professionalism can be assessed by patient satisfaction (Hickson et al. 2007). By Building Public Trust • In medicine professionalism has been described as “Something other than self-interest while providing their services.” It is based on their desire to serve others (Pellegrino, 2002, p. 387) .
Self-Regulating & Ethical • Professionalism became a watchword for the concept of a standardized, normative ethic within a field, coupled with a degree of self-regulation necessary to enforce those norms. • Over the years, fields like medicine and law distilled the concept down to its essence: self-regulation plus an aspiration to being ethical.(Pellegrino, 2002, p. 387).
ETHICS: A Moral Imperative A set of moral principles Is it Honest? Is it Honorable? Is it legal? Is it balanced? How will it make me feel about myself?
Goal: To Become the Right Kind of Professional • See People, not Objects • Build Community • Selfless Service • See Greatness • Active, self-directed learner It’s a Goal & It’s an Attitude
“Everything can be taken from man but one thing: The last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” MAN’S SEARCH FOR MEANING -Viktor Frankl- Whether you think you CAN, or Whether you think you CAN’T YOUR RIGHT!
Attitudes in Goals Setting • Believe in setting goals? • What’s it like to accomplished a goal? • Describe a time you set a goal and it flopped. • What was the impact it had on you?
Enforce Personal Integrity Enforce personal integrity: honor you commitments In sports, football, baseball, basketball, golf: it’s not where you start, it’s where you follow through that makes it work. Great Starters… ..Lousy Finishers. Not consistent follow through
Make a Commitment: Begin it! “Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back-- Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.” ~ Goethe
Keep Your Integrity • Three step process • If you make a commitment, • HONOR IT • If you make a promise, • KEEP IT • When you set a goal, • ACHIEVE IT • “The promises we break the most are the promises we have made to ourselves. When we break these promises we don’t think others will know, but we know and that has its effect on us internally. We need to decide with clarity what we really want. With complete certainty about what you want” (Gary Ryan Blaire).
Purposeful Action It could be that the purpose of your life is only to serve as a warning to others
Purposeful Actions cont. • Everything you do should have a purpose. • If you are going to do anything keep the purpose in mind. Even if you are playing a game, your purpose is to have fun. • Give meaning and direction for everything you do, think, and speak. • Be sure that what you do has some kind of direction for it so you know you are engaging in the right activities for the right reasons.
Expectations • Be decisive and decide what you expect • Assess your performance. Look at it and be sure you do it quickly. • You should evaluate your performance weekly.
Rewards • Delay Gratification • Make yourself earn the things • that you enjoy • Don’t reward yourself until you have earned it • (SELF-DISCIPLINE) • In order to achieve any of your goals you have to be in control, enforce commitment, honor your values and then you will enjoy that reward more • “WHAT WE RECEIVE TOO CHEAPLY WE ESTEEM TOO LIGHTLY” Thomas Paine
Planning prevents wasting time Much Work Remains to be Done Before We Can Announce Our Total Failure to Make Any Progress
Direction? Get a clear idea of where you are going, what potential obstacles are and the best way to execute your plan. • Proper Planning Prevents Poor Performance • What are the risks? • What is the cost (time, money, energy, etc.) • What will I have to sacrifice?
The Cookbook Approach to Setting Goals • Guarantees a result 100% of the time. • Visualize (it’s written down) • Sequence • Steps 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, there is a • sequence. • You have the steps, but if the • sequence is incorrect it won’t turn • out and may even taste bad. • Ingredients are specific: what you need • The exact components/measurements: how much your need? • Time and temperature. • If you follow the recipe without any deviation you will succeed.
The Vacation Approach cont. • How much discipline, time, and energy did you put into planning that trip? • Where you wanted to arrive, how much time, hotels, food, road map, and other details?
Involve Others • No Goal is Achieved in a Vacuum • The apple you ate from the store. Think of all • of the hands that touched that apple • Person who harvested the seed • Person who planted the seed • The person who fertilized it • The person who harvested the apple • The person who sorted the apples • The person who drove it to the warehouse • The person who drove it to the supermarket • The person who put it on the shelves • You eat the apple (maybe put it in a pie and someone else eats it.) • Who will be affected if you reach your goal? • Why will reaching your goal help others?
It Shows In Your Face… • Vision • Commitment • Determination • Hard Work • Persistence • Hope • We Must Plan for Problems, Obstacles, Set Backs, Temporary Failures! • When problems come we make a face, what face will we make?
It Shows In Your Face You don’t have to tell how you live each day;You don’t have to say if you work or play,A tried true barometer serves in the place,However you live, it shows in your face.The false, the deceit that you wear in your heart;Will not stay inside where it got it’s start,For sinew and blood is a thin veil of lace,However you live, it shows in your face.If you have battled and won in the game of life;If you feel you’ve conquered the sorrow and strife,If you’ve played the game square and you stand on first base,You don’t have to tell it, it shows in your face.If your life’s been unselfish; if for others you live,And not what you get but what you can give,And you live close to Peace, and infinite Grace,You don’t have to tell, it shows in your face.