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The Engagement and Wedding. Unit II – Chapter Seven. Objectives. Define the engagement period and explain its purpose Identify and determine the steps necessary in designing, organizing and hosting a wedding and reception. . Getting Engaged.
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The Engagement and Wedding Unit II – Chapter Seven
Objectives • Define the engagement period and explain its purpose • Identify and determine the steps necessary in designing, organizing and hosting a wedding and reception.
Getting Engaged • When people get engaged they make a promise to get married • This communicates to friends and family that the two people have made a commitment • The engagement period may last months, years or longer • It gives the couple time to test their relationship, make sure marriage is the right decision and plan for the wedding
Engagements • At one time, engagements were considered legal contracts and rarely broken • Today, broken engagements are not uncommon • Some realize they rushed their decision to get engaged • Some decide to slow the relationship down • Some find their feelings of love have changed over time • Others discover they just are not ready for the responsibilities of marriage
A broken engagement can bring a sense of loss and be very painful • In the end though, it is better to realize the warning signs early • A bitter divorce or unhappy marriage will be more painful in the long run
Marriage Laws • Every state has laws governing marriage • They serve to legalize the couple’s agreement, regulate property rights and provide protection for children
Marriage Laws • Mutual Consent: All states require this, it either party is against the idea, the marriage is not valid • Monogamy: Marriage to only one person • Marriage age: Most states allow people to marry once they are 18
Marriage Laws • Physical Requirements: Most states require a blood test to make sure neither partner has a communicable disease • Waiting Period: States requires couples to wait up to five days after the license is issued
Marriage Laws • Marriage Officials: State laws identify officials who may perform a marriage ceremony • Prohibited Marriages: All states prohibit marriages between close blood relatives • Annulment: An annulment means that a valid marriage never existed