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Communication : Essential Human Behavior. Chapter 1. A Functional Perspective. How do we communicate in relationships? Express affiliation Achieve goals Influence others. How we communicate. Symbolic Create meaning via language and symbols A necessity for a shared code
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Communication: Essential Human Behavior Chapter 1
A Functional Perspective How do we communicate in relationships? • Express affiliation • Achieve goals • Influence others
How we communicate • Symbolic • Create meaning via language and symbols • A necessity for a shared code • All agree on the meaning ascribed to those symbols • Linked to culture • Culture is powerful; includes language, other symbols, rules and norms regarding behavior
How we communicate • Doesn’t need to be intentional • Based on expressed emotions and body movements; giving vs. giving off information • Occurs through various channels • Process by which we exchange those symbols amongst each other • Transactional process • A process that involves two or more people acting in both sender and receiver roles • Once a message is sent, it cannot be reversed!
Competent Communication • Process Oriented • Emphasize whatis said and how it is said • Mutual satisfaction is the gauge of success • Ethics • Appropriate and effective • Behavioral flexibility • Make sure to meet your goals!
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Competent Communication • Communication requires skill • Behavioral routines based on social understanding • Many times unskilled and unaware • Correct use of technology • Presents different obstacles and avenues • Perceptions change depending on the context