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Discover Roles. Winter Leadership Conference 2012 Tiffin University Tom Nellson Assistant Director of Residence Life. What is leadership? Who is a leader?. Leadership. Who is a Leader?
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Discover Roles Winter Leadership Conference 2012 Tiffin University Tom Nellson Assistant Director of Residence Life
What is leadership? Who is a leader?
Leadership • Who is a Leader? • A leader is “anyone who seeks to influence the thinking, behavior, or development of others.” – Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges, Lead Like Jesus
Leaders of our Time… • Describe the following leaders/influential people based on what you know or what you think you know about each…
Who Are You? Personality Emotions Strengths Values Habits Self-Esteem
A Self-Aware Person… • Has identified personal values • Spends time and energy on endeavors related to values • Aware of strengths and weaknesses • Wants to constantly learn and grow • Realizes that s/he is not perfect – yet can still perform at high levels • Aware of emotions and biases – this awareness helps make decisions that are wise and fair • Has developed habits that shape personality • Maintains positive self-esteem • Takes time to reflect
Solicit Feedback • Ask good questions • Be equally open to all types of feedback • Positive, negative, constructive, etc. • Listen without justifying • When you’re too busy defending your actions, you miss what the person is trying to tell you • Consider who you are asking for meaningful feedback • Consider how you are asking for feedback • Show appreciation/sincere thanks
Strengths Quest • Strengthsquest.com verbiage through the Gallup Organization • Strengths quest… a lifelong adventure • Begins as you look within yourself (your natural talents) • Building natural talents to become strengths – abilities to provide consistent, near-perfect performances in specific activities • Discovery, development, and application
Weakness Fixing: The Wrong Assumptions • All behaviors can be learned. • If you try hard enough, you can do it. • If you want it badly enough, you can do it. • If you dream it, you can achieve it. • The best in a role all get there exactly the same way. • Weakness fixing leads to excellence.
Strengths Building: The Right Assumptions • Some behaviors can be learned. Many are nearly impossible to learn. There is a difference between talent, skills, and knowledge. • The best in a role deliver the same outcomes, but use different behaviors. • Weakness fixing prevents failure. Strengths building leads to excellence.
Recognizing Talents • Yearning: To what kinds of activities are you naturally drawn? • Rapid Learning: What kinds of activities do you seem to pick up quickly? • Flow: In what activities did the “steps” just come to you automatically? • Glimpses of Excellence: During what activities have you had moments of subconscious excellence, when you thought, “How did I do that?” • Satisfaction: What activities give you a kick, either while doing them or immediately after finishing them, and you think, “When can I do that again?”
What is a Strength? Talent X Investment (knowledge + skill ) = Strength A strength is the ability to provide consistent,near-perfect performance in a specific activity.
Strengths Formula Natural Talent (9) Talent x (5) Investment = 45 (9) Talent x (10) Investment = 90 Less Natural Talent (4) Talent x (5) Investment = 20 (4) Talent x (10) Investment = 40
Take a Moment… • Take a moment to describe yourself. • Jot down, at least, what you consider to be your top 5 strengths. • What makes you unique?
Roles Reflection • Take a few minutes to jot down all of the roles you have held, past and present.
Tom Nellson Roles, A Selection SOME CURRENT ROLES • Son • Brother • Friend • Student • ADRL • Advisor • Male • Cousin • Godfather • Catholic SOME PREVIOUS ROLES • Resident Assistant • Sr. Resident Assistant • Undergraduate Student • Applicant • Undergrad Leadership Coordinator • Retreat Leader • Hospitality Coordinator • Coach • Teammate • Volunteer • Coworker • Supervisor • Editor
Leaders are committed to developing their naturally born talents to assist them in reaching their vision. • Life is a balancing act • Maximize your potential for success in academics, personal life, career path, and co-curricular activities by building on your talents – the way you most naturally think, feel, and behave – rather than focusing on your weaknesses.
Leadership in ActionActivity: Planning An Event • Divide and conquer. Who is responsible for what? • Advertising • Activities • Food • Entertainment • Budgeting • Why should we divide up tasks as such? • Who will ultimately be responsible for the event?