1 / 28

Be grouchy, but...

Slideshow about Be grouchy, but... by Eric Tachibana

selenasol
Download Presentation

Be grouchy, but...

An Image/Link below is provided (as is) to download presentation Download Policy: Content on the Website is provided to you AS IS for your information and personal use and may not be sold / licensed / shared on other websites without getting consent from its author. Content is provided to you AS IS for your information and personal use only. Download presentation by click this link. While downloading, if for some reason you are not able to download a presentation, the publisher may have deleted the file from their server. During download, if you can't get a presentation, the file might be deleted by the publisher.

E N D

Presentation Transcript

  1. be Grouchy!!! but…

  2. Do you get grouchy? Do you snap at people?

  3. Hey listen, it’s OK to answer yes

  4. It is completely fine. Everyone gets grouchy. It’s natural. It is probably a biological & psychological necessity

  5. So, go ahead. Be grouchy if you need to be.

  6. However

  7. don’t be naïve. Know that your grouchiness has implications

  8. When you’re grouchy, you emanate negative energy - with words, body language, pheromones, facial expressions

  9. If you’re lucky, this negative energy dissipates because those exposed have mechanisms to disperse it

  10. Other times, the grouchiness is shared less destructively – like a bitch fest about a common co-worker

  11. however, most of the time, your negative energy has victims - employees, coworkers, family members, friends, strangers, or even small animals.

  12. Sometimes your grouchiness actually hurts the people around you

  13. Other times it infects them with their own grouchiness

  14. It has happened to you. So you know what I’m talking about

  15. So here’s my advice

  16. When you are grouchy, be grouchy. I’m not telling you to, “stop being grouchy.” That’s not possible.

  17. however…

  18. Accept that you have responsibilities

  19. First, you have the responsibility to recognize that you are grouchy

  20. once you recognize that you’re in a foul mood, you have the responsibility to try to stay away from others, or at least dissipate the grouchy energy on something inanimate

  21. Finally, when you can’t protect others, you have the responsibility to apologise once you regain composure

  22. Apologise whether or not they were hurt, because people may not tell you & because being grouchy is bad manners

  23. Better yet, if you are grouchy and you know it, acknowledge it. “I’m just so grouchy today! Sorry in advance”. That, in itself, may help.

  24. so…

  25. Be Grouchy, But…

  26. SHARE THIS DECK & FOLLOW ME (please-oh-please-oh-please-oh-please) stay up to date with my future slideshare posts http://www.slideshare.net/selenasol/presentations https://twitter.com/eric_tachibana http://www.linkedin.com/pub/eric-tachibana/0/33/b53

  27. CLICK HERE FOR MORE!!!!

  28. CREATIVE COMMONS ATTRIBUTIONS & REFERENCES Title Slide: https://www.flickr.com/photos/shandilee/ Slide 2: https://www.flickr.com/photos/mtsofan/ Slide 3: https://www.flickr.com/photos/paperpariah/ Slide 4: https://www.flickr.com/photos/issin/ Slide 5: https://www.flickr.com/photos/nowovyr/ Slide 7: https://www.flickr.com/photos/beckstei/ Slide 8: https://www.flickr.com/photos/foundanimalsfoundation/ Slide 9: https://www.flickr.com/photos/jdhancock/ Slide 10: https://www.flickr.com/photos/neilmoralee/ Slide 11: https://www.flickr.com/photos/allenthepostman/ Slide 12: https://www.flickr.com/photos/mnedermeijer/ Slide 13: https://www.flickr.com/photos/robbie73/ Slide 14: https://www.flickr.com/photos/ochre_jelly/ Slide 16: https://www.flickr.com/photos/jelles/ Slide 18: https://www.flickr.com/photos/sandeepachetan/ Slide 19: https://www.flickr.com/photos/25228175@N08/ Slide 20: https://www.flickr.com/photos/76377775@N05/ Slide 21: https://www.flickr.com/photos/flyzipper/ Slide 22: https://www.flickr.com/photos/25792994@N04/ Slide 23: https://www.flickr.com/photos/abhiomkar/ This Slide: https://www.flickr.com/photos/21572939@N03/

More Related