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Procrastination: Thief of Time. Thought leads to behavior. Who procrastinate. Raise your hand!?! Why do you procrastinate? The choice of procrastination is yours. Take responsibility!. The Why of procrastination. Rationalization
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Procrastination: Thief of Time Thought leads to behavior
Who procrastinate • Raise your hand!?! • Why do you procrastinate? • The choice of procrastination is yours. Take responsibility!
The Why of procrastination • Rationalization • one way to explain (think) away your actions when they don’t match up with your values or plans. • original mind game • It may seem reasonable but don’t reflect the real reason
3 components to rationalization • Who - often it is you • situation - often it is academic • excuse - sounds reasonable… but is it?
Real reasons for procrastination • Lack of self-confidence • Low frustration tolerance • Under pressure - proactive vs. reactive • Hostility “ideal fairness” • Life/time is not giving what you want • It is important that you can see the difference from rationalizations and real reasons
Procrastination Cycle potentially difficult situation (getting squeezed) Next time Self-beliefs (can’t cope w/ this) Behavior (procrastinate) (Run away) Feelings (anxiety, fear, anger)
You! You! You! How Did This Happen? • A LITTLE DEMON
A LITTLE DEMON • The pleasure Principle • You want to have Fun • The finger of Blame • You externalize and blame others • Unmask the Demon
Procrastination “Busting” • Make a conscious effort to change • Use feedback to fight back • Keep track - monitor • Tell yourself - best buddy • Ask others how they do it • Set goals w/ bite size pieces • Take responsibility to respond • Think positive and Plan!
Main Point Differentiating between “rationalizations” and “real reasons” affect what you believe, thus affecting everything else.
“Life often gets in the way of the best-laid plans.” • UFOs (UnForseen Obstacles) • Setbacks in your quest for better time management • productive vs. less productive days • Still stick with it - this is a learning process • Avoid procrastination in your goal of avoiding procrastination! • Remember you control/manage your life