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CHAPTER 9. PREVENTING VIOLENCE. What is Violence?. The use Examples- Wars, riots, stabbings, rapes, spouse abuse, child beatings, fights. Most are committed by strangers. Can be an effective way to solve problems. Best form of protection is a gun. Most is racially motivated.
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CHAPTER 9 PREVENTING VIOLENCE
What is Violence? • The use • Examples- Wars, riots, stabbings, rapes, spouse abuse, child beatings, fights.
Most are committed by strangers. Can be an effective way to solve problems. Best form of protection is a gun. Most is racially motivated. Certain races are more violent than others. Youth gangs responsible for majority. ½ of victims know their assaulter. Temporary solution to a problem. 2x more likely to be killed. 43x more likely to kill family than intruder. 90% are from same race. Has to do with poverty, not race. 3% are gang-related. 12% by family members. Myths vrs. Facts
Costs of Violence • Cost to the Victim - ________________ • Physical • anything that can be seen or injuries with the body • Emotional • Anger, fear sadness, negative emotions, etc.
Costs of Violence • Costs to the Assailant - _______________ • Physical • Emotional • Financial/Court Record
Costs of Violence • Costs to Society • Financial • Emotional
Risk Factors for Violence • __________________ • Why? • _____________________________ • Frustration & hostility that sometimes results when people are unable to improve their lives.
_________ VIOLENCE – page 231 • WHY? • EXAMPLES
FAMILY VIOLENCE • Children learn behaviors by imitating adults/family members. • Example: Calvin, Keegan, Nolan
Causes of conflict • How do fights start? • ________________ • What is the “root” of most arguments? *___________
How fights start • Hurt Pride & Embarrassment • _________________ • Examples?
How fights start • Peer Pressure • Instigators
How fights start • _________________Negative feeling about a certain group of people based upon stereotypes • _________________lack of acceptance of other’s opinion’s, beliefs, or actions • _________________Unfair mistreatment of a person or group based on prejudices
Why are their still prejudices today??? • ____________ • ______________________ • ______________________
Preventing Fights • Recognize the conflict _____________ • Learn to ignore some conflicts • Confront a person wisely • _________________________________ • Stay calm • Negotiate a solution • Do the unexpected • Provide the person with a way out • Be willing to apologize
Helping others avoid fights • _______________________ involves a neutral 3rd party • Your role as an _____________________ • Ignore people who talk bad about others • Don’t spread rumors • Stay away from potential fight scenes • Show respect • Get help…if needed