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WELCOME TO:. Mentoring Another Christian TRAINING. INTRODUCTION. INTRODUCTORY CONCEPTS :. DEFINITION. Mentor : ONE WHO BINDS HIMSELF TO ANSWER FOR ANOTHER; ONE WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ANOTHER’S DEFAULT. BIBLICAL BASIS. Ephesians 4:16
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WELCOME TO: Mentoring Another Christian TRAINING
INTRODUCTION INTRODUCTORY CONCEPTS:
DEFINITION Mentor: ONE WHO BINDS HIMSELF TO ANSWER FOR ANOTHER; ONE WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ANOTHER’S DEFAULT
BIBLICAL BASIS Ephesians 4:16 “From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.”
MENTOR/PROTEGE RELATIONSHIP Each one equips, after being equipped by one!
THE CRITICAL PATH . . . 1. We feel there must be more participation by every Cell Member in equipping others. 2. The Mentor/ Protégé system is effective to bond the new Cell Member to the Cell and to one special helping person.
JESUS’ CELL GROUP The group was impacted by: • His modeling • Mutual sharing • Teachable moments • Mutual learning from one another
ACCOUNTABLE & RESPONSIBLE • Not solving his problems • Not making decisions for him • But loving support ACCOUNTABLE TO.. RESPONSIBLE FOR..
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY 1.GET-ACQUAINTED STAGE
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY 2. CONFLICT STAGE
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY 3. COMMUNITY STAGE
STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY 4. MINISTRY & OUTREACH STAGE
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT- • What is your view about becoming responsible and accountable? • What are the positives? • What challenges will you face?
THE MENTOR’S TASK THE TASKS OF A MENTOR:
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES 1. A MENTOR LISTENS
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES 2. A MENTOR INTERCEDES
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES 3. A MENTOR MODELS
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES 4. A MENTOR TEACHES
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES 5. A MENTOR SETS THE PACE
SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES 6. A MENTOR INVOLVES THE PROTÉGÉ WITH OTHER CHRISTIANS
MENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENT • Telephone calls? • Day and time of weekly meeting?
MENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENT • Cell leader to know in confidence about personal matters • Scripture memory will be given highest priority
PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING • Pray for your Protégé • Write down your plans • Carefully read the weekly Mentor’s guides • Keep a record of your weekly meetings
PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING MINUTES ACTIVITY 15 SHARE 5 REVIEW SCRIPTURE MEMORY VERSES 20 DISCUSS MATERIALS
PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING MINUTES ACTIVITY 10 APPLY TRUTHS LEARNED 10 INTERCEDE FOR ONE ANOTHER AND UNSAVED FRIENDS
PROTÉGÉ’S OIKOS HAVE YOU MET THE OIKOS OF YOUR PROTÉGÉ?
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT- TALK ABOUT SPECIFIC MEMBERS OF YOUR OIKOS THAT YOU WANT TO INTRODUCE TO YOUR MENTOR
PRINCIPLES THE PRINCIPLES OF MENTORING:
PRINCIPLES IN MENTORING 1. Remember the “hula hoop” principle 2. Don’t solve the protégé’s problems 3. Never give or loan money directly to the protégé
PRINCIPLES IN MENTORING 4. Help the protégé make final decisions alone 5. Remind the protégé that walking in victory is a choice 6. Explain that “you never fail until you quit”
THE EQUIPPING TRACK THE EQUIPPING JOURNEY:
THE JOURNEY STARTS • A new convert or a believer visits the cell group • The person commits to become a cell member
THE JOURNEY STARTS • The cell leader presents him or her with a copy of the Journey Guide • The new cell member prayerfully completes the Journey Guide on his own
THE CELL LEADER VISITS The new cell member is visited by the cell leader and a Mentor, Prayerfully selected from the cell.
THE CELL LEADER VISITS A “Journey Map” is prepared. The Mentor will help the new member get started on this Equipping Journey.
EQUIPPING JOURNEY If the protégé is a new believer: • Present the Beginning the Journeybooklet • Schedule5weekly visits • Use the Mentor’s Guide found in the back of Beginning the Journey
EQUIPPING JOURNEY • New cell member attends“Spiritual Formation Weekend” • New believer is then baptized
EQUIPPING JOURNEY • Protégé obtains a copy of the Arrival Kit • Schedule 11 weekly visits • Mentor uses mentor’s guide at the back of the Arrival Kit
EQUIPPING JOURNEY • Protégé now becomes a Mentor of an incoming person • Mentoring Another Christian is obtained and worked through
EQUIPPING JOURNEY The Mentor and Protégé now team up as partners to attend the Touching Hearts Training
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