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Do surrogates ever want to keep the baby

One of the questions commonly asked by people considering surrogacy is u201cwould the surrogate want to keep the baby?u201d This is a very reasonable question that every parent asks themselves at the beginning of the process and itu2019s okay to be a little apprehensive. The answer is reassuring u2013 as soon as you start an orderly surrogacy procedure, (preferably with a professional surrogacy agency that knows all the procedures and laws) u2013 at the end of the process the baby will stay with the intended parents.

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Do surrogates ever want to keep the baby

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  1. Do surrogates ever want to keep the baby? Most surrogates have no desire to keep the baby. Often they have chosen to be surrogates for financial reasons. On the other hand, there have been rare cases where surrogates express a desire to keep the baby.

  2. Most surrogates want to deliver the baby and give it to the intended parents.It may seem like a difficult idea… why would anyone want to have a baby for someone else? But the surrogacy process has one goal that satisfies the expectations of both parties involved. The parents want a baby and the surrogate mother often has financial motivations. • A baby being born is an extremely exciting moment. He or she is sweet and cozy and so small. And yet, the surrogate mother is not interested in taking him home.The human mind is complex, and we are capable of dealing with complex emotions and thoughts. For example, I love my children even when they are not with me. The surrogate mother can love your baby and still not want to raise him. In fact, she prefers to see the intended parents start their new life with the little baby because that is what is best for all parties. Important facts that may help reduce your understandable concerns 2

  3. The intended parents want children for reasons we all understand. The surrogate mother is often already a mother of her own children and is not interested in having more children. • It’s important to have close support from an experienced and reputable agency such as Tammuz which will find a suitable surrogate for you and will supervise the entire surrogacy process. A good agency will assure that the surrogate understands her legal obligations. • Have a professional contract drawn up and executed with the surrogate. This contract should explicitly list the surrogate’s intentions, including rights, obligations and compensation conditions. Complying with the terms of this agreement demonstrates both sides commitment to the process and reduces the possibility of a dispute in the future. 2

  4. Request that all candidates for surrogacy undergo a comprehensive psychological evaluation by a professional therapist who will submit an evaluation regarding their emotional and mental capacity. (Many surrogacy clinics and agencies include this assessment as part of their screening process). • If you decide to start a international surrogacy journey independently, maintaining a close and friendly relationship with the surrogate is essential. A positive relationship and trust encourages her commitment to fulfill her role and voluntarily give up parental rights.  2

  5. CONTACT US Tammuz family is available for you at any time for any questions. For more details, please contact us. Visit Us - www.tammuz.com Phone-0737838058 Email - info@tammuz.com 2

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