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What do men and women look for in a partner?. Women look for:Record of achievementLeadership qualitiesSkill at his jobEarning potentialSense of humorIntellectual abilityAttentivenessCommon senseAthletic abilityGood abstract reasoning. Men look for:Physical AttractivenessAbility in bedW
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1. Social Psychology The thoughts, feelings, and behaviors of individuals as shaped by the actual, imagined, or implied presence of others
Norman Triplett (1897): first social psychological experiment (social facilitation)
Centered around cities at first why?
2. What do men and women look for in a partner? Women look for:
Record of achievement
Leadership qualities
Skill at his job
Earning potential
Sense of humor
Intellectual ability
Attentiveness
Common sense
Athletic ability
Good abstract reasoning
Men look for:
Physical Attractiveness
Ability in bed
Warmth and affection
Social skill
Homemaking ability
Dress sense
Sensitivity to others needs
Good taste
Moral perception
Artistic creativity
3. Theories of Attraction Reward Theory
Physical Attractiveness
Balance Theory: attitude similarity leads to attraction
Proximity/Mere Exposure Effect: functional distance how often do paths cross
Sociobiology
4. Styles of Love Hendrick and Hendrick: Love has different meaning to different people
Six styles of loving
Eros: Passionate Love
Ludus: Game Playing Love
Storge: Friendship Love
Pragma: Logical Love
Mania: Dependent Love
Agape: Selfless Love
5. Dealing with Dissatisfaction Rusboldt and Zimbrodt identified 4 general responses
Exit: ending or actively abusing the relationship
Voice: actively attempting to improve conditions
Loyalty: passively waiting for things to improve
Neglect: passively allowing the relationship to deteriorate
Two dimensions: constructive/destructive and active/passive
6. Obedience to Authority Stanley Milgram: investigating behavior of individuals during time of Holocaust
Emphasized the power of the situation
Fundamental Attribution Error
When allowed to stop as soon as they wanted to, people stopped between 45-60 volts
7. Other Researchers Hofling (1969): all but 1 of 22 nurses were ready to comply with a physicians order to administer an obvious overdose of a drug!
1977 Replication: lower level of compliance. Used a familiar drug and gave nurses a chance to consult someone else
8. Reactance Sometimes we do say no!
Reactance is a motive to protect or restore ones sense of freedom and self-efficacy
Romeo and Juliet Effect
9. Aggression Physical or verbal behavior intended to hurt others
Homicide rates have consistently dropped in the U.S. in the last ten years
Although they did increase 1% in 2002
We still have the highest rate in Western society (16,204 in 2002)
18-24 year olds have the highest victimization and offending rates (this wasnt true until the 1980s)
Rates are highest in Southern Regions (worst rate is West South Central)
10. Aggression in the South Why are homicide rates higher?
In the abstract, southerners do not support violence more than northerners
However, they are more likely to endorse violence as a means of self-protection, as an appropriate response to insults, and as a socialization tool for training children
Culture of honor, herding societies in SW (must protect herds)
11. Television and Violence Average child sees 100,000 acts of violence and 8,000 murders before the end of elementary school
58% of TV programs contain violence
73% of these shows indicate no remorse or penalties for violence
Rate of violence: 5-6 incidents per hour during primetime; 20-25 Saturday mornings
Children's interest in shows increases if rated parental discretion advised
12. Influences on Aggression Frustration/strong emotion
Alcohol usage is a factor in 2/3 of homicides, and 1/3 of all rapes
Pain
Crowding
Temperature (92 degrees and higher)
Pornography