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More and more couples have realised that it is okay to have problems in a marriage and can seek out marriage counseling for help. For more information visit http://www.tanuchoksi.in
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TANU CHOKSI Marriage Counseling
Marriage Counseling • More and more couples have realised that it is okay to have problems in a marriage and can seek out marriage counseling for help. • They understand that this does not mean they are weak together, but that they have the strength to accept that they need professional help to amicably resolve an issue. • A married couple that seeks out marriage counselingis one that has already taken the first step towards reaching a happier place in their relationship. • They believe that there is a step that can be taken, to at least try and rectify the issues, before opting to separate.
Common Occurrences The common reasons as to why couples seek out marriage counseling in Mumbai are as follows: • A partner guilty of infidelity. • A partner that may be an abuser of substance or drugs. • A financial crunch. • Communication barriers between each other. • Fights over trivial issues and insecurities. These are the basic reasons as to why an unhappy couple visits a therapist for some marriage counseling.
What is the Next Step? Marriage counseling works best with mutual participation. A session in this includes both members of the couple, getting an equal chance to speak to the professional in charge in order to have their thoughts on the flaws of the relationship brought out into the open. The entire purpose of this is for the therapist to get a 360 insight into what each partner takes away from the relationship. The therapist records areas of discord and disagreement and dives deeper to understand what stimulates or triggers these thoughts.
Communicate and compromise: In a typical session of marriage counseling in Mumbai, you will see a young or slightly old couple, trying very hard to move past it.Here the therapist, through a controlled environment, encourages the couple to really talk to each other. Listen to each other without fighting and saying the truth without any inhibitions. Once this is done, the therapist helps them break the barriers of communication; explaining to each one where they need to communicate and where they need to compromise.
Getting better: A little progress goes a long way. A couple visiting a marriage counseling specialist that feels like they have made progress needs to use that as a motivator to keep going. Visiting a therapist does not mean that the little improvement in the relationship is the end goal. It means that these are just stepping stones towards achieving bigger milestones in life. You need to keep going at it or the problems will never be eradicated, just fade away into the background until it comes back into the spotlight and things go downhill again.