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A list of ten signs your relationship has become toxic.
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THEUNKNOWN'S 10 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS TOXIC PresentedbyJamesNelmondo
TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS DEFINITION Toxicrelationshipsarerelationshipsthatfeaturecore behaviorsthatarefundamentallyincompatiblewith longtermfulfillment. Thefollowingpresentationhighlights10typical examplesofhowthesecorebehaviorscangowrong.
1. Codependency. ARELATIONSHIPCANNOTWORK IFWEGIVEAWAYEVERYTHING WEARETOMAKEENDSMEETOR AVOIDCONFLICT. LOSINGSIGHTOFOUROWN NEEDSWILLMAKEANY RELATIONSHIPTOXIC, REGARDLESSOFHOWMUCHWE LOVEOURPARTNER.
2. CONFLICT AVOIDANCE CONFLICTISASIGNTHATTWOPEOPLEARE MANAGINGTHERELATIONSHIP'SOUTWARD GROWTH. ITISATOOLTHATHELPSBRINGTHECOUPLEBACK INLINEWITHEACHOTHERANDRENEGOTIATEITS NEEDS. AVOIDINGCONFLICTMEANSTHEBUILDUPOFLONG TERMRESENTMENT, BECAUSETHOSE UNDERLYING ISSUESARENOTBEINGADDRESSED BUTARESTILLTHERE.
3. GUILT GAMES AREYOUBEINGMADETOFEELGUILTYONADAILYBASIS FORNOREALREASON? ISYOURGUILTBEINGUSEDBY YOURPARTNERASAWEAPONTOCONTROLYOU? IFSO YOUARELIKELYINATOXICRELATIONSHIP.
4. JEALOUSY AND POSSESSIVENESS ISYOURPARTNER PROJECTINGTHEIR INSECURITYONTOYOUANDMAKING YOUPAYTHEPRICEOFTHEIRFEAR?
5. INTIMIDATION THREATSAREN'TALWAYSDIRECT. HOW FREEAREYOUTOLIVEYOURLIFETHE WAYYOUSEEFIT? HOWSATISFIEDARE YOUWITHWHATYOUAREBEINGASKED TONEGOTIATETOKEEPTHE RELATIONSHIPWHOLE?
6. PERFECTIONISM IFYOUEXPECTPERFECTION, EVERYDAYAND EVERYONEISFUNDAMENTALLYAFAILURE. 7. ASKING TOO MUCH THISISBOTHTRUEWITHREGARDSTO YOURSELF, ANDWITHREGARDSTOYOUR PARTNER.
8. DEPRESSION Notjustmentally. Areyouphysicallydepressed? Isgetting upinthemorningmuchharderthanitoncewas? Maybea triptothedoctorwouldhelp, butthere'sachanceyour unhappinessisbeingchanneledandprocessedbyyour bodybecauseyourmindcan'tcope.
9. TRUST IFYOUANDYOURPARTNERFUNDAMENTALLYDON'TTRUST EACHOTHER, YOUWILLATTEMPTTOMANIPULATEAND CONTROLEACHOTHER.
10. UNBALANCED ALITTLEPUSHANDPULLISNORMAL, BUTACOMPLETELYONE-SIDED RELATIONSHIPISDOOMEDTOFAIL UNLESSABALANCEISQUICKLY REACHED.
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