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Bullybusters. By: Bridget Good & Jenny Schmid. ABC News: Bullying Story. www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Wcx2qM5C4g. Score 15. Bullying is a normal part of growing up? T or F F- Each and every one of us has the right to feel safe in our lives and good about ourselves.
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Bullybusters By: Bridget Good & Jenny Schmid
ABC News: Bullying Story www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Wcx2qM5C4g
Score 15 • Bullying is a normal part of growing up? T or F • F- Each and every one of us has the right to feel safe in our lives and good about ourselves. • Five hundred years ago the word bully meant? • 500 years ago it meant friend, family member, or sweetheart. Big change! • Bullying usually begins at this age level. • 2nd or 3rd grade • One in ______ schoolchildren is either a bully or a victim. • 7 • Bullying affects approximately how many elementary and junior high students in the United States? • 5 million
What is Bullying? • Bullying is an aggressive behavior that is intentional and that involves an imbalance of power or strength over and over again.
What’s the Difference? • Discuss with a neighbor the difference between tattling and telling. • Tattling: Telling on another student to get he/she in trouble • Telling: Informing a teacher so that another student does not get hurt
What’s the Difference? • Discuss with your neighbor the difference between bullying versus teasing. • The difference between bullying and teasing is how the action is interpreted by the target. • For both girls and boys in elementary and junior high school, the most common form of bullying is, in fact, teasing!
Friends playing roughly, equal power Single event, equal power, not friends Repeated event, unequal power, may or may not be friends Match ‘Em Up! • Horseplay • Fighting • Bullying
Step 1: What is the social environment like at your school? • Change the social norms with regard to bullying • Make bullying “uncool” • Teach bystanders to take action • Establish bullying behavior chart and consequences (see chart attached)
Step 2: Assess bullying at your school • Administer anonymous questionnaire to students about bully (see sample surveys from TheBully Free Classroom.)
Step 3: To be most effective, bullying prevention efforts require buy-in from EVERYONE in the school. • Step 4: Form a group to coordinate the school’s bullying prevention plan. • Step 5: Train your staff in bullying prevention
Step 6: Increase supervision in “hot spots” • Hallways • Locker rooms • Playground area • Restrooms • Buses
Step 7: Set aside class time to discuss bullying and peer relationships with students • Step 8: Intervene on the spot • Be fair, be consistent, be effective • Follow-up with students who are bullied and with students who bully
Zero tolerance • Model the positive behavior • Talk about it • Build empathy • Teach coping skills • Teach positive self talk • Teach students to use “I” messages • Post bullying reporting information
Resources • The Bully Free Classroom by Alan L. Beane, Ph. D. c2005 • No-Bullying Program: Preventing Bullying at School by James Bitney and Beverly B. Title, Ph. D. c2001 • Best Practices by Michael R. Carpenter, Ph. D., Olweus National Bullying Prevention Program Trainer
Resources… • www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov • http://pbskids.org/itsmylife/friends/bullies • www.safeyouth.org • www.tolerance.org • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpSgs_UIVvY