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THE ADOLESCENT WITHIN THE THERAPIST

THE ADOLESCENT WITHIN THE THERAPIST. Alan Flashman MD Family Institute NEVE YERUSHALIM 5773. MY BODY. ME. Robert Kegan. MY BODY. ME. ME. MY BODY. MY FEELINGS. ME. MY FEELINGS. ME. MY THOUGHTS. ME. ME. MY THOUGHTS. REALM OF THE HAND. REGULATION Doing – mother’s

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THE ADOLESCENT WITHIN THE THERAPIST

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  1. THE ADOLESCENTWITHINTHE THERAPIST Alan FlashmanMD Family Institute NEVE YERUSHALIM 5773

  2. MY BODY ME Robert Kegan

  3. MY BODY ME ME MY BODY

  4. MY FEELINGS ME MY FEELINGS ME

  5. MY THOUGHTS ME ME MY THOUGHTS

  6. REALM OF THE HAND REGULATION • Doing – mother’s • Result – baby’s • E.g. security

  7. REALM OF THE EYE Intersubjective • Differences • Curiosity • Co-creation • Presence

  8. REGULATION INTER-SUBJECTIVE EMOTIONAL ACTIVITY DEVELOPMENT

  9. ADOLESCENT DEVELOPMENTAL BREAKDOWN • Physical puberty • Emotional puberty • Central masturbation fantasy • Being “adult” • Sexually • Emotionally • Relinquishing “oedipal parents”

  10. ADOLESCENT DEVELOPMENTAL BREAKDOWN • Remaining a child • Sexually: • Perversion • “broken” = small • Central fantasy as a child with adult • Emotionally • Ongoing struggle with oedipal parents

  11. MY BODY ME ME MY BODY

  12. BLOCK TOWER ZONE OF PROXIMAL DEVELOPMENT 6 WE CAN TO- GE-THER 5 ME BY MY-SELF 6 NOT BY MY-SELF 6 ME BY MY-SELF ???? L.S. VYGOTSKY

  13. MY BODY ME ME MY BODY WE CAN TOGETHER

  14. MY BODY ?????? ME WE ME MY BODY MY BODY ZONE OF PROXIMAL GROWTH

  15. Client’ client Therapist’ therapist "שלא תיבהלו ממני!!

  16. DIFFERENTIATIONOF SELF IN SYSTEM • “I” - POSITION • TRIANGLES • CO-CREATION MURRAY BOWEN

  17. HIGH DIFFERENTIATION:TRIADS FATHER MOTHER CHILDREN

  18. LOW DIFFERENTIATION:TRIANGLES FATHER MOTHER CHILDREN

  19. DIFFERENTIATION LOW HIGH DISENGAGED ENMESHED CO-CREATION

  20. Yonatan Darmon Tsfat

  21. LOW I AM ERASED YOU ARE ERASED WE DO NOT CHANGE HIGH I WANT/FEEL YOU = ENDS WE = CO-CREATION DIFFERENTIATION

  22. REGULATION INTER-SUBJECTIVE DIFERENTIATION EMOTIONAL ACTIVITY DEVELOPMENT

  23. CROSSROADS OF DIFFERENTIATION • CHANGE IN ROLE OF CHILD • CHANGE IN ROLE OF PARENT NO CO-CREATION DECREASE IN DIFFERENTIATION CO-CREATION INCREASE IN DIFFERENTIATION

  24. THERAPIST CAUGHT IN: EXPERIENCES DO NOT MATTER NO CHANGE IS BEST CUTOFF VS ENMESHED SACRIFICE FOR OTHER RELATIONS VOTE OF NO CONFIDENCE NO GROWTH NO CO-CREATION DECREASE IN DIFFERENTIATION CO-CREATION INCREASE IN DIFFERENTIATION THERAPIST MAKES USE OF: EXPERIENCES WITH PARENTS OTHER EXPERIENCES WHAT IS EXPECTED CURIOSITY AND PRESENCE

  25. REFERENCES פלשמן א. ואבנט, ח. (עורכים) תקשורת טיפולית עם מתבגרים, ירושלים, 2005 Murray Bowen, Family Theory in Clinical Practice, 1978. Robert Kegan, The Evolving Self, 1981. M. Laufer & M. EgleLaufer, Adolescence and Developmental Breakdown, 1984 Daniel Stern, The Interpersonal World of the Infant, 1985. The Present Moment, 2004. L. S. Vygotsky, Mind in Society, 1978.

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