Buck Roggeman President brogge3@gmail.com  (831) 402-7288 www.transformationalcoachesmc.com

1. Buck RoggemanPresidentbrogge3@gmail.com (831) 402-7288www.transformationalcoachesmc.com

2. Tom Roggeman (Dad)

3. Rock Roggeman (Brother) 1963-2010

4. Football Life

6. Joe Ehrmann

7. Origins of the Handshake • Gesture to show you were unarmed • Came in peace • Firm but not crippling • Look the person in the eye

8. Characteristics of a Great Captain Jeff Heidrick

9. Four Venues to be a Leader Football Player • During Practice • During Games As a Man 3) Around School 4) Around Town

10. Perfect Player • Combines talent with an incredible approach to preparation and competition. • He is a player who can be counted on in games. • He improves the school • He improves the world around him

11. Practice What you do must match what you say

12. What you Must do • Work Harder than Every Other Player on Your Team • Serve Your Teammates – Great Leaders are Great Servants • Teach the Young Guys What it Means to be a Football Player

13. What You Must Say Be an Unstoppable Force of Positive Energy • Language • Captains encourage, coaches correct • No Swearing • Tone – No Whining • Body Language • Loyalty

14. Games You’re in the huddle and there’s one minute left to play. You team is • Tied B) Down by 3 C) Up by 3 D) Down by 40 E) Up by 40 What do you say to them in the huddle?

15. Always Support Your Teammates • Part of loving your teammates is never turning your back on them

16. Respect the Game by Respecting Your Opponents • Compete with your opponent, not against your opponent • Ideal game is where you both improve as a player and team while you both pursue victory with every fiber of your being

17. Respect the Game by Respecting Officials • They are on the field because of the love of the game just like you are • How you handle a bad call that goes against you will reveal your character

18. How to Handle Victory • Share credit for victories • Stay humble and hungry • Remember glory is fleeting

19. How to handle defeat • Give credit to your opponent – avoid saying you “beat yourself” • Never blame anybody else for your defeat • Never make excuses

20. You Represent Something Bigger than Yourself • Team, school, family, community • Getting off the bus • Greeting adults from the other school • Sitting in stands waiting for your game to start • National Anthem • Handshake line • Walking out of the stadium

21. Three Scariest Words a boy Will Ever Hear BE A Man

22. Three Myths of Masculinity • Athletic Ability • Sexual Conquest • Financial Success

23. Re-Defining Manhood • Building Loving Relationships – Your ability to love and be loved • Finding a Cause that Transcends Yourself – Service to others

24. Critical Questions • Relationships • How good of a teammate are you? • How good of a son, brother are you? • Later, how good of a husband, dad are you? • Finding a cause • What am I doing that will last when I am gone? • How do I want to be remembered?

25. Around School • Will you fit Society’s Stereotype of Football Players? • Conceited, rude, dumb, bully/abusive • Will you break the stereotypes? • Humble, polite, intelligent, caring

26. Approach Class like it is Your Sport • Preparation • Focus • Effort

27. Speak with Respect to the Adults in Your Life • Greet every teacher every day • Sir and Ma’am • Please and Thank

28. Extend your Reach Outside of Athletics • Fascinating people all over your school • Get involved in other student groups • Student council • Service clubs (Interact, Key Club) • Begin an athletic service club

29. Around Town • Get involved with your community • Assist with Youth Sports • Food drive, blood drive, penny drive • Celebrate or commiserate the right way • Stay sober • Respect women • Obey the law • Begin at Home • Be a better son; be a better brother

30. Final Thoughts • Great Leaders • Are aware that they are role models • Are committed to the group they lead • Are hard workers • Are proud representatives of their group • Build loving relationships • Are here to serve others