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The Three “Treasures” in Life. By Cathy Chang. Outline. Starting Questions Family Starting Questions Useful Expressions Discussion Questions Friends Significant Other. Starting Questions. The 3 treasures in life ( 人生的三寶 ): Family Friends Girlfriend/Boyfriend (the significant other)
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The Three “Treasures” in Life By Cathy Chang
Outline • Starting Questions • Family • Starting Questions • Useful Expressions • Discussion Questions • Friends • Significant Other
Starting Questions • The 3 treasures in life (人生的三寶): • Family • Friends • Girlfriend/Boyfriend (the significant other) • Do you believe in this saying? Why or why not? • Are there different degrees of importance between the three? • Are there other “treasures” in life?
Family(Starting Questions) • Introducing your family members • Who is the closest to you? Or influences you the most? Why or why not? • Do you live with your parents? Advantages and disadvantages • What kind of family would you like to have yourself in the future?
Useful Expressions • Adoptive parents (stepfather, step mother) - 養父養母 • Siblings - 兄弟姊妹 • In-law(s): • Brother-in-law = 姊(妹)夫 • Son-in-law = 女婿 • Daughter-in-law = 媳婦 • Spouse - 配偶 (ex-wife/former wife, separated, divorced) • Types of Family - nuclear, extended, DINK (double-income-no-kid), bi-cultural, blended (step)
Discussion Questions • Family Resemblance: Who do you look like more in your family? Personality-wise? • Generation Gap: Do you think that it is hard to communicate with the older generation? • Can you describe one thing that makes your family unique and different from others?
Friends • What is the difference between acquaintances, friends, and best-friends? Do you have this distinction? • What is your definition of friendship? How do you maintain friendships? • What are some characteristics that you think a friend should have?
Useful Expressions (1) • Pen pal - 筆友 • Internet friends - 網友 • Friends from different generations - 不同世代的朋友 • Fair-weather friend - 酒肉朋友 • Bad/good/best friends - 壞/好/至友 • True/false friends - 真正/虛偽的朋友
Useful Expression (2) • Loyal 忠誠的 • Sincere 誠懇的 • Supportive 支持的相挺的 • Close/intimate 親近的 • Mutual understanding 互相瞭解 • Have sth. In common 有共同點 • Care about somebody (sb.) 關心某人 • Take care of sb. 照顧某人 • Get along (well) with sb. 與某人和睦相處 • keep in touch with sb. 與某人保持聯絡 • Lose touch with sb. 與某人失去聯繫 • Maintain the friendship 維持友誼 • Drift apart 疏遠
Significant Others • What do you look for in a boy/girlfriend? • Do you believe in love at first sight? • Do you believe in having only one true love? • Are there any differences in expectations between boy/girlfriend and husband/wife? • What are the important things in maintaining a relationship? • What is your opinion towards couples living together before marriage?
Useful Expressions • One night stand 一夜情 • Man of your dreams 夢中情人 • True love 貞愛 • Cohabitation 同居 • Heartbroken 失戀 • Have a crush on sb. 迷戀某人 • Puppy love 少男少女間短暫的愛情
Further Discussion • Do you feel that marriage and creating a family is the ultimate goal in life? • What are the attitudes of today’s youth that are different from older generations? • Do you feel that the relationships between people, including families and friends, have become weaker? Or stronger?
References • Materials from Paul’s PowerPoint files