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Agenda: Thomas Kilmann Instrument: Getting to Know Yourself and Your Team

Agenda: Thomas Kilmann Instrument: Getting to Know Yourself and Your Team Positions and Interests: Getting to Good Conversation 3 Conversations: What happened Emotions and Feelings Identity. TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010. Identity Issues. TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010. Three Identify Issues

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Agenda: Thomas Kilmann Instrument: Getting to Know Yourself and Your Team

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  1. Agenda: • Thomas Kilmann Instrument: Getting to Know Yourself and Your Team • Positions and Interests: Getting to Good Conversation • 3 Conversations: • What happened • Emotions and Feelings • Identity TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  2. Identity Issues TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  3. Three Identify Issues 1. Am I competent? 2. Am I a good person? 3. Am I worthy of love? TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  4. Identity Quake Am I competent? NO Am I a good person? NO Am I worthy of love? NO 4 TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  5. Complexify! • No one is always anything • We can feel positiveandnegative • Adopt the • AND STANCE TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  6. All or Nothing? All my fault I’mincompetentandworthless. Not my fault I reject all feedback as irrelevant. TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  7. Three Things to Remember 1. You will make mistaks! 2. Your intentions are complex. 3. You have contributed to the problem. TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  8. Rolls of Roles List 10 most important roles you play Now strike the 2 least important roles Strike 2 more Then 2 more And another 2 Now just one more … TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  9. Rock and Roles at Rare PPM to CM Relationship TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  10. Roles and roles Step 1 In a group, list the roles PPMs play to CMs/LAP supervisor. Step 2 How do they evolve over time? How do you think this looks from the perspective of the CM/LAP supervisor? Step 3 What might be effective ways of managing communication around PPM roles with CMs? TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  11. Personal Reflection Step 1 Think about times you have experienced identity quakes. Step 2 Look for a pattern that may indicate identitys/roles that are vulnerable for you. Step 3 List them. TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  12. Mantra • Write a mantra • Does anything come to mind now…. • Give yourself time…. • REGAIN BALANCE TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  13. Final Exercise…. Putting It All Together TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

  14. Now what? • Review of elements • Homework • Follow up TRAIN THE TRAINER 2010

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