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Which Can Harm The Congregation Most?. It can stab in the back better than any switchblade. It can kill better than any gun. It can choke out life quicker than any poison. It can sting and bite and hurt deeper than any whip. And it can leave scars that will last longer than any branding iron.
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Which Can Harm The Congregation Most? It can stab in the back better than any switchblade It can kill better than any gun It can choke out life quicker than any poison It can sting and bite and hurt deeper than any whip And it can leave scars that will last longer than any branding iron Switchblade Gun Poison Whip Branding Iron
Which Can Harm The Congregation Most? What is it? It can stab brethren in the back better than any switch blade It can kill the enthusiasm of the congregation better than any gun It can choke out the influence of the church quicker than any poison It can sting and bite and hurt God’s people deeper than any whip And it can leave scars that will last longer than any from a branding iron Switchblade Gun Poison Whip Branding Iron
Jas.3:1-10– “1 Be not many of you teachers, my brethren, knowing that we shall receive heavier judgment. 2 For in many things we all stumble. If any stumbleth not in word, the same is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body also. 3 Now if we put the horses' bridles into their mouths that they may obey us, we turn about their whole body also. 4 Behold, the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by rough winds, are yet turned about by a very small rudder, whither the impulse of the steersman willeth. 5 So the tongue also is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how much wood is kindled by how
small a fire! 6 And the tongue is a fire: the world of iniquity among our members is the tongue, which defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the wheel of nature, and is set on fire by hell. 7 For every kind of beasts and birds, of creeping things and things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed by mankind. 8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is a restless evil, it is full of deadly poison. 9 Therewith bless we the Lord and Father; and therewith curse we men, who are made after the likeness of God: 10 out of the same mouth cometh forth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.”
Matt.12:36,37– “36 And I say unto you, that every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. 37 For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.”
GOSSIP What is it? 1 Tim.5:13– “And withal they learn also to be idle, going about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.” Strong’s– "to be a babbler or trifler, to berate idly or mischievously, prate against, garrulous person, prater, tattler" Thayer– the root word means “to boil up, throw up bubbles, of water; and since bubbles are hollow and useless things, 'to indulge in empty and foolish talk’.” Another form of the word: "to utter nonsense, talk idly, prate ... to bring forward idle accusations, make empty charges."
GOSSIP It is Dangerous! It Wounds Prov.18:8– “The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.” Spurgeon said, “Tale-bearing emits a threefold poison; for it injures the teller, the hearer and the person concerning whom the tale is told.”
GOSSIP It is Dangerous! It Separates Friends Prov.17:9– “He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; But he that harpeth on a matter separateth chief friends.” Prov.16:28– “A perverse man scattereth abroad strife; And a whisperer separateth chief friends.”
GOSSIP It is Dangerous! It Creates Strife Prov.16:27,28– “27 A worthless man deviseth mischief; And in his lips there is as a scorching fire. 28 A perverse man scattereth abroad strife; And a whisperer separateth chief friends.” Prov.26:20,21– “20 Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth. 21 As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife.”
GOSSIP It is Dangerous! It Creates Strife Prov.25:23– “The north wind bringeth forth rain: So doth a backbiting tongue an angry countenance.”
GOSSIP It is Dangerous! It Ensnares Prov.18:7– “A fool's mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul.”
GOSSIP It is Dangerous! It Can Discourage The Righteous Gossip many times can make a saint to be in despair and become ineffective in a local church When this happens to elders, often they resign 1 Tim.5:19– “Against an elder receive not an accusation, except at the mouth of two or three witnesses.”
GOSSIP How To Curtail Gossip Phil.4:8,9– “8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honorable, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. 9 The things which ye both learned and received and heard and saw in me, these things do: and the God of peace shall be with you.”
GOSSIP How To Curtail Gossip We must PURIFY our hearts Lk.6:45– “The good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and the evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth that which is evil: for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.” 1 Pet.1:22– “Seeing ye have purified your souls in your obedience to the truth unto unfeigned love of the brethren, love one another from the heart fervently:”
GOSSIP How To Curtail Gossip We must Properly Measure Self 2 Cor.10:12– “For we are not bold to number or compare ourselves with certain of them that commend themselves: but they themselves, measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves with themselves, are without understanding.”
GOSSIP How To Curtail Gossip Put Away Idleness Rom.13:11-14– “11 And this, knowing the season, that already it is time for you to awake out of sleep: for now is salvation nearer to us than when we first believed. 12 The night is far spent, and the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armor of light. …”
GOSSIP How To Curtail Gossip Cut Down on Words Prov.17:27– “He that spareth his words hath knowledge; And he that is of a cool spirit is a man of understanding.” Prov.10:19– “In the multitude of words there wanteth not transgression; But he that refraineth his lips doeth wisely.”
GOSSIP How To Curtail Gossip Put it to the Test Ask yourself these questions: Is it true? Will it do good to tell it? Will it help the person overcome their sin? Have I fulfilled my responsibility to the Lord to FIRST talk with my sinful brother/sister to try and bring them to repentance?
GOSSIP Psa.141:3,4– “3 Set a watch, O Jehovah, before my mouth; Keep the door of my lips. 4 Incline not my heart to any evil thing, To practise deeds of wickedness With men that work iniquity: And let me not eat of their dainties.”