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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. Habits. What are habits? Things we do repeatedly. But most of the time we are hardly aware of them. They’re on autopilot. Good Habits. Exercising regularly Planning ahead Showing respect to others. Bad Habits. Thinking negatively

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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens

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  1. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens

  2. Habits What are habits? Things we do repeatedly. But most of the time we are hardly aware of them. They’re on autopilot.

  3. Good Habits • Exercising regularly • Planning ahead • Showing respect to others.

  4. Bad Habits • Thinking negatively • Feeling inferior • Blaming others

  5. Habits that don’t matter • Takings showers at night • Eating yogurt with a fork • Reading a magazine from back to front.

  6. Habits Depending on what they are, our habits will either make us or break us. We become what we repeatedly do.

  7. Samuel Smiles Quote Sow a thought, and reap an act; Sow an act, and you reap a habit; Sow a habit, and reap a character; Sow a character, and you reap a destiny. What does this mean?

  8. Habits • You are stronger than your habits. Therefore, you can change them.

  9. The 7 Habits can help you: • Get control of your life • Improve your relationships with your friends • Make smarter decisions. • Get along with your parents. • Overcome addiction (food, soft drinks, etc) • (cont.)

  10. Define your values and what matters most to you. • Get more done in less time. • Increase your self-confidence. • Be happy • Find balance between, school, friends, and everything else.

  11. Dumb Statements made by Real Teens • “No one in my family has ever gone to college. I’d be crazy to think I could make it.” • “It’s no use. My stepdad and I will never get along. We’re just too different.” • “My teacher is out to get me.” • “She’s so pretty – I’ll bet she is a jerk • “You can’t get ahead in life unless you know the right people.” • “Me Thin? Are you kidding? My whole family is full of fat people.”

  12. Habit #1Be Proactive Take responsibility for your life. A Defective Teen: blames all of their problems on their parents, their stupid teachers, lousy neighborhood

  13. Proactive People • Are not easily offended • Take responsibility for their choices • Think before they act • Bounce back when something bad happens • Always find a way to make it happen • Focus on things they can do something about, and don’t worry about things they can’t

  14. We Can Control Only One Thing • We cannot control everything that happens to us but we can control how we react.

  15. Language

  16. Proactive or Reactive The Choice is Yours • Reactive people make choices based on impulse. They are cans of soda pop. If life shakes them up a bit, the pressure builds and they suddenly explode. • Proactive people make choices based on values. They think before they act. They recognize they can’t control everything that happens to them, but they can control what they do about it. They are calm, cool, and in control.

  17. Scene 1 • You overheard your best friend bad-mouthing you in front of a group. She doesn’t know you overheard the conversation. Just five minutes ago, this same friend was sweet-talking you to your face. You feel hurt and betrayed. • How would a reactive person handle it. • How would a proactive person handle it.

  18. Scene Two • You’ve been working at your job in the store for over a year now and have been extremely committed and dependable. Three months ago, a new employee joined the crew. Recently, he was given the coveted Saturday afternoon shift you were hoping for. • How would a reactive person act. • How would a proactive person act.

  19. Your Language • Listen to what you say are you reactive or proactive. • Do you blame circumstances for your situation? • Do you make the best of your situation?

  20. Proactive or Reactive • Reactive people • Are easily offended • Blame others • Get angry and say things they later regret • Whine and complain • Wait for things to happen to them • Change only when they have to.

  21. Defective Teen Blames all of their problems on their parents, their stupid teachers, lousy neighborhood, boy or girlfriend, or something or somebody else. They’re a victim. They take no responsibility for their life. Act like an animal. If they are hungry they eat. If they are yelled at they yell back. If they feel like doing something they know is wrong, they do it anyway.

  22. There’s a Hole in My Sidewalk I walk down the street, There is deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost… I am helpless, It isn’t my fault. It takes forever to find a way out. I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in again. I can’t believe I am in the same place But, it isn’t my fault. It still take a long time to get out.

  23. I walk down the same street There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it is there. I still fall in. It’s a habit. My eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. I walk down the same street There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it. I walk down another street.

  24. Habit #2 Begin With the End in Mind

  25. Habit #2 – Begin With the End in Mind If teens aren’t clear about where they want to end up in life, about their values, goals, what they stand for, they will wander and waste time.

  26. Habit #2 Begin With the End in Mind Create a personal mission statement which will act as a road map and direct and guide your decision-making process.

  27. Habit #3Put First Things First

  28. Habit #3 – Put First Things First This habit helps teens prioritize and manage their time so that they focus on and complete the most important things in their lives.

  29. Habit #3 – Put First Things First Putting first things first also means leaning to overcome fears and being strong during difficult times. It’s living life according to what matters most.

  30. Habit #4Think Win-Win

  31. Habit #4 – Think Win-Win Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of win-win in every relationship.

  32. Habit #4 – Think Win-Win This habit encourages the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial solution.

  33. Habit #4 – Think Win-Win Learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by the them

  34. Habit #5 Seek First to UnderstandThen Be Understood

  35. Habit #4 – Seek First to Understand, Then Be Understood Because most people don’t listen very well, one of the great frustrations in life is that many don’t feel understood.

  36. Habit #4 – Seek First to Understand, Then Be Understood. This habit ensures you learn the most important communication skill there is: active listening

  37. Habit #6 Synergize

  38. Habit #6 - Synergize Synergy is achieved when two or more people work together to create something better than either could alone.

  39. Habit #6 - Synergize Synergy allows teens to value differences and better appreciate others.

  40. Habit #6 - Synergize Through this habit, learn that it doesn’t have to be “your way” or “my way” but rather a better way.

  41. Habit #7Sharpen the Saw

  42. Habit #7 – Sharpen the Saw Teens should never get to busy living not to take time to renew themselves.

  43. Habit #7 – Sharpen the Saw When a teen “sharpens the saw” he or she is keeping their personal self sharp so that he/she can better deal with life.

  44. Habit #7 – Sharpen the Saw Sharpening the saw means regularly renewing and strengthen the four key dimensions of life – body, brain, heart, and soul.

  45. 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE TEENS A Quick Review

  46. 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens • Habit #1 – Be Proactive • Habit #2 – Begin With the End in Mind • Habit #3 – Put First things First • Habit #4 – Think Win-Win • Habit #5 - Seek First to Understand, Then Be Understood • Habit #6 – Synergize • Habit #7 – Sharpen the Saw

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