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RISING STARS

LETTER OF INTRODUCTION. On page 2 of your handbook you will find a letter of welcome from Belinda Matingou, NBMBAA Austin Chapter President. THE STARFISH. Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began h

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RISING STARS

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    1. RISING STARS MENTOR ORIENTATION

    2. LETTER OF INTRODUCTION On page 2 of your handbook you will find a letter of welcome from Belinda Matingou, NBMBAA Austin Chapter President

    3. THE STARFISH Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work. One day he was walking along the shore. As he looked down the beach, he saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself to think of someone who would dance to the day. So he began to walk faster to catch up. As he got closer, he saw that it was a young man and the young man wasnt dancing, but instead he was reaching down to the shore, picking up something, and very gently throwing it into the ocean. As he got closer he called out, Good morning! What are you doing? The young man paused, looked up, and replied, Throwing starfish in the ocean. I guess I should have asked, Why are you throwing starfish in the ocean? The young man responded, the sun is up and the tide is going out and if I dont throw them in theyll die. But, young man, dont you realize that there are miles and miles of beach and starfish all along it? You cant possibly make a different! The young man listened politely, then bent down, picked up another starfish, and threw it into the sea, past the breaking waves and saidIt made a difference for that one.

    4. MISSION STATEMENT The goal of the RISING STARS Mentor Program is to facilitate the development and enhancement of mentor relationships at the college level. The purpose of the program is to bring college students and professionals from the community together to help students navigate their professional development while still in college.

    5. PROGRAM POLICIES RISING STARS wants to ensure the mentor program benefits all of our participants in a meaningful way. The following program policies are designed to protect the mentor, mentee, and the program. These policies must be adhered to at all times. Mentors must be at least 21 years of age, complete an application, and commit to the program. Mentors must abide by RISING STARS Code of Ethics by adhering to and maintaining the confidentiality of the mentor/mentee relationship. Interactions between mentor and mentee shall remain on a professional level. Mentors should be cautions about physical contact with a mentee. A friendly gesture may be misinterpreted. Mentors should not engage in any inappropriate communication with mentees. Inappropriate includes, but is not limited, to verbal abuse, swearing, conversations that include or refer to sexual content, and racist, sexist, or homophobic language. Such communication is expressly prohibited and will result in dismissal from the program. Mentors should not give any kind of medication to a mentee. Mentors are discouraged from buying gifts and/or meals for their mentees. Mentors are not responsible for disciplining mentees. If you are concerned about a mentees behavior or their behavior becomes unacceptable, contact the mentor coordinator at once. Mentors are required by law to report any information a person might share that relates to homicide, suicide, physical/emotional abuse, or any illegal activity.

    6. CODE OF ETHICS I will not discriminate based on race, color, national origin, religion, sexual orientation, age, or handicap in any of my activities or services. I will dress appropriately when with my mentee. Clothing should be modest with no references to sex, drugs, or alcohol. Each mentee deserves and will receive my undivided attention. I will sue appropriate language and will refrain from suing profanity. I will never use a mentoring situation to exploit a student in any manner or impose my own personal beliefs or values. Personal relationships with students interfere with the objective of the program as well as professional relationships and are to be avoided. I will respect the dignity of all students and respect them without judgment. The students I mentor will be constantly encouraged, but never deceive with false hopes or flattery. I will respect the privacy of students and carefully guard the confidentiality of any personal or academic information regarding them. I will strive to be punctual in keeping appointments, not only out of courtesy, but also as an example of students to follow. The student I deal with will always understand that my role is never to do their work for them. I will count on each student I work with to teach me new ways of doing a better job.

    7. ROLES & RESPONSIBILITIES What are the Mentors Responsibilities? Agree to consistently honor their commitment for the entire school year. Agree to respect confidentiality in the mentor/mentee relationship. Agree to follow program policies. What are the Mentees Responsibilities? Agree to meet regularly with their mentor. Agree to respect confidentiality. Agree to not expect mentors to provide money, clothing, or transportation.

    8. THE MENTORING LIFE CYCLE The Mentoring Life Cycle consists of three phases Phase One: Developing Rapport and Building Trust; Phase Two: Setting and Reaching Goals; Phase Three: Navigating Rough Spots; and Phase Four: Closure. Lets take a moment to learn about each phase.

    9. PHASE ONE: DEVELOPING RAPPORT & TRUST Testing Establish Confidentiality Goal Setting (transitions into Phase 2)

    10. PHASE TWO: SETTING & REACHING GOALS Setting Goals Clearly define goals Goals not achieved

    11. PHASE THREE: NAVIGATING ROUGH SPOTS Importance of you Validation Expressing feelings Unique role Relationships do have problems Serious problems

    12. PHASE FOUR: CLOSURE Be proactive Look for signals Respect your partner Evaluate the relationship Review your goals Integrate Never assume

    13. QUALITIES OF A SUCCESSFUL MENTOR A MENTOR Is a positive role model Is not judgmental Reacts well to, and tolerates, stressful situations Is patient Nurturing Caring Good sense of humor Does not try to be the parent/teacher Commitment Respect Ability to listen Flexible Open

    14. PREPARING FOR YOUR MEETINGS The initial meetings The value of play Play as a tool for learning Celebrating accomplishments

    15. WAYS TO SPEND AN HOUR Relationship building Communicate Setting Goals Closure

    16. MENTORING ACTIVITIES MONTH 1 (SEPTEMBER) Get to know you lunch MONTH 2 (OCTOBER) Mentor visits mentees workplace, sits in on a class, participates or observes an activity that Mentee is involved in. MONTH 3 (NOVEMBER) Mentee visits mentors workplace, sits in on a class, participates or observes an activity that Mentor is involved in. MONTH 4 (DECEMBER) Pulse check on progress Is the Program Meeting Both Mentee/mentors Expectations? Good time to get together for lunch or over a coffee. MONTH 5 (JANUARY) Attend a professional networking function together, i.e. Diversity Program, Recruiter Summit, NBMBA Monthly Mixer, etc. MONTH 6 (FEBRUARY) Bring an article to review together and discuss implications in your workplace, school, environment, etc. MONTH 7 (MARCH) Suggest a book on a topic of discussion. Discuss. MONTH 8 (APRIL) Attend the NBMBA monthly meeting together to receive certificate of program completion OTHER SUGGESTIONS: (CLASS PARTICIPATION)

    17. ACTIVITY GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER WHO AM I? HOW MUCH SHOULD I REVEAL? CONFIDENTIALITY OF RESPONSES

    18. PROBLEM-SOLVING SKILLS List skills each of you possess. Do a project that would require each of you to share your specific area of expertise. Discuss how each of you are able to contribute something unique. Discuss the value of each skill. Value of working individually vs. working as a team.

    19. BONDING OPEN DISCUSSION ACTIVITIES TO DEVELOP BONDING

    20. MENTEE RESISTANCE Your mentee may at some time become resistant in your relationship. Do not take this personally. Building a relationship takes time. Causes Length Behavioral Indicators of Resistance Reasons Behind Resistance

    21. TIPS FOR HANDLING RESISTANCE Do more and talk less. Follow the mentees lead. Be persistent. Try yielding. Seek assistance.

    22. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION LISTENING LOOKING LEVELING

    23. ROADBLOCKS TO COMMUNCIATION ORDERING THREATENING PREACHING PACIFYING LECTURING

    24. MODELING & SHARING VALUES Values are general principles that are of fundamental importance to people. Equality Tolerance Honesty Privacy Security Education Service A persons values affects: Opinions Beliefs Attitudes Sharing Values Dont force your own Share without passing judgment Respond honestly when asked.

    25. BRIDGING DIFFERENCES Embracing differences and cultural Sensitivity Learn to embrace differences Culture defined Cultural sensitivity Explore differences Ethnic Diversity Socioeconomic Diversity

    26. MENTEES & LYING Why? What to do if a student repetitively lies. Discussion Consequences Conscious

    27. ALCOHOL & DRUGS College is a time for trying new things. Warning signs Physical Emotional Mentor School Social

    28. STUDENT SUICIDE Suicides among college students continue to be a serious problem. Each year in the U.S., many college students commit suicide. Suicide is the third leading cause of death for 15 to 24-year-olds. Mentors should be aware of the certain signs indicating a student may be contemplating suicide. Additional signs. What to do.

    29. SEXUALITY GAY, LESBIAN, & BISEXUAL STUDENTS Attending college is a demanding and challenging task for every student and a time to explore and try new and different things. Mentors feelings about How to handle How to discuss

    30. EATING DISORDERS Warning signs of eating disorders Anorexia Bulimia When you suspect an eating disorder Preventing eating disorders

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