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. Knowing" what is right is not hardDoing" what's right is. Values. Our values play a role in the decisions we makeValues areIdeas or beliefs that we hold special and meaningfulBeliefs that guide our actions and attitudesEveryone has their own set of beliefs WHY???Can you give exampl
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1. Decision Making Miss Bragan
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Knowing what is right is not hard
Doing whats right is
3. Values Our values play a role in the decisions we make
Values are
Ideas or beliefs that we hold special and meaningful
Beliefs that guide our actions and attitudes
Everyone has their own set of beliefs WHY???
Can you give examples of your values?
4. What is a Wrong Decision? A wrong decision is a choice that leads to actions that:
Harm health
Are unsafe
Are illegal
Show disrespect for self and others
Disregard the guidelines of parents and other responsible adults
Lack good character
5. Making Decisions
How do we evaluate the decisions we make?
6. Decisions styles 3 possible Decision Making Styles:
An inactive decision making style
A reactive decision making style
A proactive decision making style
7. An Inactive Decision Making Style
A habit in which a person fails to make choices, and this failure determines outcomes
Procrastination
Little control over direction
No self confidence (gaining)
*Procrastinate: to postpone something until a future time
8. A Reactive Decision Making Syle
A habit in which a person allows others to make his/her decisions
Easily influenced
Lack of self confidence
Giving control of direction of lives to others
9. A Proactive Decision Making Style A habit in which a person describes the situation that requires a decision, and makes a decision and takes responsibility for the consequences
Are not driven by circumstances
Not easily influenced
Have principles, such as integrity, honesty, and dignity that guide their decisions and behaviors; become empowered
Empowered: is to be energized because a person has some control over his/her decisions
10. What Style are you?
11. Decision Balnce Weighing the positive and negative consequences of change to yourself and others.
Example: Stopping Smoking
12. Reinforcement A reward or punishment for a behavior that will increase or decrease ones likelihood of repeating a behavior.
EXAMPLES???
13. Affirmation A single positive sentence used as a tool for behavior change
I AM NOT A SMOKER
I AM GOOD AT MY JOB
I AM AWESOME
I WILL SCORE A GOAL TODAY
Write. Say. Think.
14. Making a Healthy Change in Your Life
Awareness recognizing a problem
Knowledge learn the facts
Decision making what to do?
Applying skills create a new habit
15. So What Do We Do if We Make a Wrong Decision?? WE FIND A WAY TO FIX IT???
BUT HOW?
16. 4 Easy Steps Take responsibility and admit you made a mistake
Do not continue actions based on wrong decisions
Discuss the wrong decision with a friend, guardian, or someone you trust
Make restitution for harm done to others
Restitution: making good for any loss or damage. Making up for harm you could have caused.
Apologizing is not always enough
17. Responsible Decision Making Model What is it?
A series of steps to follow to assure that the decisions a person makes results in actions that:
Promote Health
Promote Safety
Follow Laws
Show respect for self and others
Follow guidelines of parents and adults
Demonstrate good character
18. Step 1
Define the problem; describe the situation
19. Step 2
Explore Options!
20. Step 3
Consider the consequences!
What are the pros and cons of each option?
21. Step 4 Dont Forget your values
Examples of values:
Honesty, integrity, loyalty, respect for people, responsibility, kindness and caring, fairness, pursue excellence, citizenship.
22. Step 5
DECIDE!!!!
23. Step 6
Evaluate the outcome.
Use the word help:
H. Healthy?
E.Ethical?
L.Legal?
P.Parent-approved
24. Changing a Behavior is Hard Internal influences
ex. Safety, legality,
health, self-respect and values
External influences
ex. Friends, family, society and media
Which will cause the greatest permanent change?
25. Strategies For Change Is your goal SMART?
S-Specific.
M-Measurable.
A-Attainable.
R-Realistic.
T-Targeted.
26. Remember Good decision making is a practiced skillyou can get better at it
Good decisions always reflect your values. A decision in conflict with your values will always be a regrettable one.
Learn from your mistakes!