Online Dating: What Not to Do

1. Online Dating: What Not to Do If you’re new to online dating, it can be difficult to navigate as it is very different from dating in “real life.” While there are some similarities, there are certain mistakes that could impact your dating life online. Below are some online dating don’ts: Don’t judge a book from by its cover. While a person’s picture will be the first thing you see, don’t always judge them by one specific photo. Be sure to dig deeper into their profile and personality before you decide if it might be a good match. Don’t try to make the “perfect” profile. It can be easy to get caught up in the details of creating the perfect profile, but don’t get too caught up in saying the right things. Focus on being true to yourself and what you look for in a partner. Set the right tone. Focus on making your profile pleasant, friendly and easy to read. Avoid sounding too boastful, snide or bitter. Setting the right tone will allow you to attract the right person. Don’t get too attached too quickly. While fantasies can be great, avoid creating them when you’re initially beginning to speak with someone. Love at first sight might work for some, but for others it takes several dates or even months of dating. Don’t be afraid to get out there. Online dating can seem overwhelming with so many profiles and images, but don’t be afraid to get out there and message those you’re interested in!