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Your marriage is on the rocks. You lost your job. Your boyfriend/girlfriend isn't talking to you. You hurt your leg. You are five days away from foreclosure on your home. Your child is sick. Your mother died. Any one of these experiences is traumatic. More than one happening at the same time could put you into a tailspin. It is essential that you can look deep into yourself and see that some of these things are beyond your control- while others are totally in your power to fix - Karla Carbo Utah<br>
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Grieving the Unavoidable Some things, like the death of a family member or a friend, are totally out of your hands. In this case, it is simply your job to grieve. Too often, I have witnessed people stoic at a parent's funeral. They seem to go on with their lives and are praised for being so strong, yet they allow it to eat away at them and feel miserable on the inside for years.
Fixing the Controllable, Getting Back to Basics Beyond death and loss, some things are totally in your control to fix. First, forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made. The past is beyond your control, but you can influence the future. You are the only person in this world who has seen hard times. If you feel overwhelmed,
Conclusion If you think your life is falling apart and need some help, Karla Carbo, a life coaching expert, is always here to help. Acknowledge the issue and then exercise your choices. Call the loan company. Find out what action you can take to sell your property and have less of a mark on your credit. Speak with someone who has experienced the situation. Remember that it didn't take you a day to get into this mess, so it will take more than a day to fix.