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How To Survive In A Toxic Work Environment If you had ever found yourself in the lead character of a workplace drama for no apparent reason? It's possible that someone said something incorrect about you or distorted something you did. Perhaps someone in your group/office/team has an issue with you and went over your head, or the "difficult person" in your group/office/team claims they can't work with you. Regardless of how the event played out, it's not only distressing, but it may also have major repercussions for your job if not handled properly. When you are able to breathe again, the first thing you should do is gather all of the information regarding the incident. Make every effort to evaluate the data with as little emotion as possible. It's a good sign if the charges are without merit and you have proof (or witnesses) to prove your innocence. You may or may not be able to cleanse your name depending on your workplace. However, you are not yet out of the woods. Being innocent—or correct—doesn't solve the situation. If it's a black-and-white situation and you have proof to back up your decision or clear up a misunderstanding, make sure you tell your employer about it and ask him or her to assist you by correcting the record. When the circumstance or issue is subjective, a "he said/she said" conflict may arise. Even if you are not guilty as alleged, you may continue to experience hostility from the accuser/complainer because of the false/incorrect remark or circumstance made by your supervisor, coworker, or client. The fact that you haven't been approved in writing is likely to make you feel uneasy and
exposed. The issue is that no one will provide you with the closure you require. The only way out of this dilemma is to bluff it out with a confident attitude (even if you don't feel confident). The actual risk lies in the accuser's motivation. The accuser could be after your job, wants you to quit, wants to get you in trouble, or simply enjoys causing a ruckus. It's possible that you'll never discover the true cause. Accusers drain your energy, therefore don't let them drain you. You need energy, and you want it to be optimistic, so you can advance in your career and explore new options if things don't get better. Here are my top ten tips to help you get through a difficult scenario and get your next fantastic job! 1. Assign yourself a higher-profile role. Your accuser wins if you stay in the closet. Allow the spotlight to shine on you and your team/colleagues by remaining in the spotlight. This is an excellent moment to take charge of the light that shines on you by developing new initiatives and business ideas, as well as sharing success tales. Visibility also allows others to form their own opinions about you instead of relying on rumors. 2. Look for occasions to openly acknowledge and praise your naysayers, as well as everyone else you work with, on their accomplishments and triumphs. This demonstrates to everyone that you are a more mature, professional individual. You're also proving that you're not the one who's causing the problems. It is very obvious who is creating the problem without having to point fingers. 3. Don't discuss your troubles or issues with coworkers. No one at work can keep your secrets, no matter how nice they are. Even those you regard to be your allies have a habit of gossiping. Protect yourself by speaking with a coach or trusted friends and family for advice and assistance in developing an action plan. 4. Stay professional at all times and don't get caught up in their game. Nothing you say or do should be used against you. Make certain that your acts and words are always pure. People may still make up stories about what you did or said, but you are confident in your innocence, which gives you personal power. Also, if what's being stated contradicts what they've seen and experienced firsthand in their interactions with you, others will notice. 5. Stay away from the drama when people inquire about your critics and want to hear your side of the story. Be professional, say nothing but positive things about your critics, then change the subject and get back to work. 6. Distract your critics/assailants. Continue to be pleasant and helpful to your critics so that the notion of you being tough is dismissed, and your critics have no new fuel to throw on the fire. 7. Keep your ear to the ground and strengthen and develop your allies. It's more vital than ever to be aware of what's going on in the office and to keep connected.
8. Exude self-assurance, and everyone will notice that you aren't worried and that, despite the office turmoil, you are at ease and confident. Pat yourself on the back and keep moving forward. 9. Make sure your résumé is up to date and fresh. If the troublemakers are well-connected or are protected by strong individuals, your best option is to flee with as little damage as possible. If the system favors poor conduct, you can't cure a toxic work environment. Make the decision to go somewhere else as soon as possible. 10. Increase your networking and expand your network. More industry events should be attended, as well as efforts to meet new individuals. Volunteer for high-profile chances with your professional and industry organizations to obtain supporters and references outside of work. Outside of the office, your critics are unlikely to have the same clout, so let your light shine!