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Kris Miner, Executive Director. Whose in the room?. How far did you drive to get here? How many OJP Crime & Victimizations Conferences for you? How long have you been serving victims? Type & level of service? A fact or question about Restorative Justice?. Whose is Kris Miner?.
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Whose in the room? How far did you drive to get here? How many OJP Crime & Victimizations Conferences for you? How long have you been serving victims? Type & level of service? A fact or question about Restorative Justice?
Whose is Kris Miner? • Drove 4 hours from River Falls, WI • First time attending this conference. • Serving victims for 19 years. • First RJ training in 1998 • From jalapeño's to homicide.
SCVRJP 2011 139 sessions 1,820 individuals Nearly 3,000 in volunteer hours Annual budget $160,000 Campus, Municipal, Circuit, Schools, public
What Youth Need • Participate as citizens • Decision making experience • Interaction with peers • A sense of belonging • Reflect on self • Formation of a Value System • Identity development • Feelings of accountability & equality • Cultivate a capacity to enjoy life.
Elements of R.J. • Principles/Philosophical Approach • Harms, needs, obligation, engagement • Encounter, amends, reintegration, inclusion • Specific Values • 3 R’s, inclusion, problem-solving • Practices/Expressions • Conference, Circle, VOD
Peace & Belonging Restore Connections Promote Empathy Increase Self-worth
Indigenous Roots of RJ • Often over generalized • Maori - New Zealand • First Nations – Yukon • Lakota – Midwest • Community World View • Spirituality driven perspectives • Non-punitive responses to trauma
In relationships we are broken and in relationships we are healed. Judge Ed Wilson Rondo to Rwanda
Relationships Responsibility Respect
Accountability Acknowledging that you caused harm Understanding the harm from other viewpoints Recognizing that you had a choice Taking steps to make amends Taking action to change
Healing Individual Anything that thwarts your good Gathering the lesson in the experience Integrating life experiences Seeing life with compassion & love
Healing Hurt understanding Loyalty compassion respect forgiveness Love
Connectedness Equals responsibility Harming Others, harm yourself Awareness of this responsibility creates our value system.
Values For us to live by and others A shared concept of society Internalized & stable Used to evaluate ourselves & others The internal sanctioning system
Values Goals & ways of behaving despite objects or situation. Standards & Principles that guide our actions. Should do, rather than want or have to.
Victim-Offender Dialogue • Victim-centered. • Face-to-face w/trained facilitator(s). • Lots of preparation time. • Dialogue includes the effect, feelings, questions. • Growing trend in serious & violent crimes.
Restorative Justice Circles Open/Close Circle-keeper Values/Guidelines Talking Piece Consensus
How we serve Fix/Help/Serve Victims Offenders Community Members
Healing Presence • Being Centered (compassion & humility) • Being Connected to Higher Values & Purpose (belief system @core) • Connected to the Humanity of others (connection enables other to bear pain & garner strength) • Being Congruent (emotionally honest, without masks)
Empathy • Lack leads to stealing, drug dealing, rape & murder (Oakwood Solutions, LLC) • Barriers-emotional neglect, stress, genetics • Improves School Performance, Self-Awareness, Relationships
Empathy"… to understand another person's point of view, emotions, thoughts, feelings Empathy is the most important characteristic in human relationships. *Center for Social and Emotional Education