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To Love & Forgive Self & Others

To Love & Forgive Self & Others. Dr Kiran Vaswani MD, DCH, PGD Adol Ped, Dip Counseling(TISS) PULSE P arents’ U nconditional L ove S upport and E ncouragement. An odd statement?. Loving self-who does not? Forgiving self-for what? Love others-what’s new?

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To Love & Forgive Self & Others

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  1. To Love & Forgive Self & Others Dr Kiran VaswaniMD, DCH, PGD Adol Ped, Dip Counseling(TISS)PULSEParents’ Unconditional Love Support and Encouragement

  2. An odd statement? • Loving self-who does not? • Forgiving self-for what? • Love others-what’s new? • Forgive others-how does it matter/does it affect me?

  3. Loving self • Young girl who has complied with the request of being intimate with a boy, even against her wishes. • A boy who feels threatened and rejected…..and harms the girl or becomes a ‘devadas’ • Teens falling a prey to peers and getting involved in high-risk behaviours • Teen who feels (s)he is good for nothing or worthless

  4. Loving self • Essential joy of being-life force in each person • Seek to be validated, positive strokes Negatively focused- Parenting Education Culture • At least one person loves you • Maslow-states ‘vitamins’ of our personality: Warmth Comfort Contact communication

  5. If I see self as Worthless Useless Unlovable Incompetent Plagued with self-doubt and self-pity Inter-personaly ineffective and unsuccessful • Worthy • Useful • Lovable • Competent Happy and productive life

  6. Love others • Girl-harmed by a boy/man….acid thrown on her, face slashed, have no clue of anyone bothering or harassing her • Learning difficulty or other challenges, school trying to get rid of this student • Biased society, khap panchayats

  7. Love others • Parents • Teachers • Society at large • In the context of Trust Openness Validation

  8. Forgive self • A pregnant unmarried girl ending her life • Failure in exams-suicide • A mistake, a wrong decision…feel guilty and go into depression or worse end life • Abused as child or teen

  9. Forgive self • Mistakes happen and need to forgive self • Learn from these failures and move ahead

  10. Forgive others • Teen-others who have wronged • Parents-teens • Teachers-teens • Society-teens

  11. Forgive others • Need to heal and move ahead • Can be directed towards others

  12. Self-esteem tree Dov Peretz Elkins, teaching people to love themselves

  13. Bhoolsabhi se hothiaayi • Kaunhaijisnenathokarkhayi • Bhoolon se sikhejo • Manzilusnepaayi.

  14. Carry home messages • Need an atmosphere of acceptance and unconditional love, support and encouragement to Develop a positive self to operate effectively and be successful Love life as “ life-force “ within each of us to forgive self and others. We as pediatricians let us strive for early intervention in achieving a positive identity in our teens

  15. Request to Think and thanks

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