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LIES AND SELF-DISCLOSURE

LIES AND SELF-DISCLOSURE. SELF-DISCLOSURE. HOW IS IT USED? Alter Relationship Closeness Catharsis Manipulation. THE DEEPEST SELF-DISCLOSURES ARE:. KNOWN BY ONLY A FEW PERSONALLY “OWNED” SPECIFIC HIGH RISK/VULNERABILITY HIGH NEED FOR UNDERSTANDING/ACCEPTANCE

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LIES AND SELF-DISCLOSURE

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  1. LIES AND SELF-DISCLOSURE

  2. SELF-DISCLOSURE • HOW IS IT USED? • Alter Relationship Closeness • Catharsis • Manipulation

  3. THE DEEPEST SELF-DISCLOSURES ARE: • KNOWN BY ONLY A FEW • PERSONALLY “OWNED” • SPECIFIC • HIGH RISK/VULNERABILITY • HIGH NEED FOR UNDERSTANDING/ACCEPTANCE • CREATE DEMAND FOR RECIPROCITY • EXPECT TARGET WILL NOT TELL OTHERS

  4. LYING IN CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS • MUTUALLY INFLUENTIAL PROCESS • MULTIPLE EXPOSURES TO IT • FAMILIARITY WITH BEHAVIOR • IS JUDGED WITHIN RELATIONSHIP RULES AS WELL AS SOCIETAL RULES

  5. SHOULD I LIE? • WILL THIS BEHAVIOR HELP US ACHIEVE OUR SHORT/LONG RANGE GOALS? • DOES MY PARTNER OPERATE BY THE SAME RULES I AM? • DOES MY PARTNER KNOW I HAVE HIS/HER BEST INTERESTS AT HEART --BOTH GENERALLY AND IN THIS SITUATION?

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