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1. I have always considered marriage as the most interesting event of one's life, the foundation of happiness or misery. GEORGE WASHINGTON Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

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4. Introduction • Different cultural background -> different forms of marriage Who Decide? • by parents :Traditional Chinese culture of marriage • by the young : The Hopi(kiva) Bavarian people (windowing Different Style of Marriage • Oneida Community : group marriage • The early Mormons : Polygamy Conclusion • Finding a spouse = important concerns in our lives Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

5. 1st • spouse : 배우자 • join together : 합치다(unite) • right and wrong : 옳고 그름 • a match maker : 결혼 중매인 Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

6. 1st • All societies have their own form of marriage. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

7. 2nd • characteristic : 특징 • no matter when or where = whenever or wherever no matter when or where they have lived : ‘그들이 언제 혹은 어디에 살았던지 간에’ 【설명】[no matter + 의문사]는 [의문사 + ever]로 대치될 수도 있으며 양보의 의미를 나타낸다. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

8. 2nd • In traditional Chinese culture, marriage decisions were made by parents for their children. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

9. 3rd • be impressed that ~ : ~하다는 인상을 받다 • make : (성장하여) ~이 되다 / He will make an excellent scholar. 그는 훌륭한 학자가 될 것이다. • as a consequence (of A) : (A의) 결과로 Unit 8. Findign a Spouse

10. 3rd • As part of our cultural background, beliefs about marriage can be as different as the cultures of the world. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

11. 4th • Bavarian people of southern Germany : 남부 독일의 바이에른 사람들; ‘barbarian’(미개한)과 혼동해서는 안됨 • leave A open : A를 열린 상태로 • so that 주어 could 동사원형 : 주어가 ~할 수 있도록 • enter A : A에 들어가다 • fertility : 수정능력, 비옥 • requirement : 필요조건 • view : 관점, 견해 • marriage practices : 결혼 풍습들 Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

12. 4th • The Hopi culture is not the only one that allowed young people to visit each other at night. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

13. 5th • hold : (신념ㆍ생각 등을) 품다 / He holds the same view with me. 그는 나와 같은 견해를 가지고 있다 • started = established • group marriage : 집단혼(2명 이상으로 된 남자 1조(組)와 다른 1조의 여자들이 동시에 혼인 관계에 있는 혼인 형태) Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

14. 5th • One view of marriage that surprises most of us today was held by John Noyes, a religious man who started the Oneida Community in the state of New York in 1831. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

15. 6th • sect : 종파 • polygamy : 일부다처; monogamy : 일부일처; bigamy : 중혼; exogamy : 족외혼; endogamy : 동족결혼; polyandry : 일처다부 • the Mormon Church = the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints : 예수 그리스도 후기 성도 교회 • ban : 금지하다 Unit 8. Findign a Spouse

16. 6th • A more famous example of a different style of marriage is found among the early Mormons Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

17. 7th • commit : 전념하다 • finding a spouse with whom we can commit to spending a lifetime : ‘우리가 더불어 일생을 보내는데 전념할 수 있는 배우자를 찾는 것’ • concern : 관심사 Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

18. 7th • Marriage is a basic and important part of human life. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

19. Read for Details • A matchmaker helped by finding someone of the right age and background. • A successful marriage was one that produced sons. • Thirteen • They stopped night visits if they thought a boy might not be a good husband. • She would get pregnant. Unit 8. Findign a Spouse

20. Read for Details 6. She wouldn’t be able to get married. 7. They believed unmarried women should not get pregnant. 8. It didn’t continue to exist because John Noyes had left the community. 9. In 1890, polygamy was officially banned in the Mormon church. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

21. READING TWO : What’s Wrong with Tradition? Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

22. 1~2 • a business degree : 경영학 학위 • business leadership : 경제적 주도권 • the questions that people ask me : ‘사람들이 나에게 묻는 질문들’ 3 • a happy one = a happy marriage • for the first time : 처음으로 • arranged marriage : 중매결혼 • as time passes : as time goes by(시간이 지남에 따라), with the passages of time, in the process of time • everlasting : 영원한 Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

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45. 1. Did you know? + Who likes her most? • Did you know who likes her most? 2.Do you guess?+ Whom did she discuss? • Whom do you guess she discussed? 3.Do you think?+Who is the man? • Who do you think the man is? 4.Can you tell?+When did she buy it? • Can you tell when she bought it? Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

46. 5.When did she meet him?(Do you think) • When do you think she met him? 6.Do you believe?+What did he say? • What do you believe he said? 7. What can I do for you?(Do you imagine) • What do you imagine I can do for you? 8.Why is the baby crying?(Please tell me) • Please tell me why the baby is crying. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

47. 9.Where was it made?(Did you say) • Did you say where it was made? or • Where did you say it was made? 10. I ask him. Is she from Canada? • I ask him if(whether) she is from Canada. 11.Do you Know? Is it yours? • Do you Know if(whether) it is yours? Unit 8. Finding a Spouse