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Thy Speech Betrayeth Thee. What Does The Bible Say About Gossip?. Principles To Consider… Our communication is to always be “high quality” Eph 4:29, 31 5:3-4 Col 4:6 It needs to be “edifying” It needs to be “graceful” It needs to indicative of a thankful person
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Thy Speech Betrayeth Thee What Does The Bible Say About Gossip?
Principles To Consider… • Our communication is to always be “high quality” Eph 4:29, 31 5:3-4 Col 4:6 • It needs to be “edifying” • It needs to be “graceful” • It needs to indicative of a thankful person • It is not to be “salty” but pleasant, “tasteful”
Principles To Consider… • Gossip is behavior that meets with Satan’s approval 1 Tim 5:13-15 • Indicates not enough time spent at home • Indicates too much “intrusiveness” into others’ business • Indicates too much idle time
Principles To Consider… • Gossip is behavior that meets with Satan’s approval 1 Tim 5:13-15 • This reflects poorly upon Christ, His kingdom • Enemies would be emboldened in their reproachful speech by such conduct
Principles To Consider… • A gossip himself is not a “faithful spirit” Prov 11:13 • He is not “trustworthy” • He has betrayed others, their confidence • He doesn’t love others…his behavior tries to “separate friends” Prov 17:9
Principles To Consider… • A gossip himself is not a “faithful spirit” Prov 11:13 • He is not to be associated with as long as he gossips Prov 20:19
Principles To Consider… • It takes 2 to gossip Prov 26:20 • No wood…no fire • No talebearer…no gossip, rumors, slander • However, a gossiper cannot “practice his trade” without a willing listener
Principles To Consider… • It takes 2 to gossip Prov 26:20 • Those who may not actually be telling it are just as guilty when they want to hear it • They want all the “juicy details” Prov 26:22 • This is easily thwarted…when the gossiper comes calling, do not give him your ears
Questions To Ask Myself… • We all communicate, talk to others • Sometimes this involves the actions, character of others • Before proceeding, it would be prudent to consider some questions • Whether we are the “tellers” or the “listeners”
Questions To Ask Myself… • Is It True? • Rumors are easily started…spread faster • We should only speak truth Eph 4:25 • Even if it is true, does it need to be told? E.g. A past sin that has been corrected… repentance has occurred
Questions To Ask Myself… • Is It Helpful? • Does it help some greater good if others are told about it? • Is one’s character, a family, a local church, etc. helped or advanced by revealing something about someone else
Questions To Ask Myself… • Is It “Constructive” Or “Destructive?” • Does it build someone else up, or does it do nothing but tear that person down?
Conclusion • There are many ways in which a disciple may manifest a heart molded by the world • Gossip is but one of them • It is an easy trap in which to fall • Disciples need to remember what Jesus and Paul taught Mk 7:20-23 Rom 12:1-2
Conclusion • Love of God should be enough to help us remember to avoid this sin • Love of others (brethren, friends) also ought to be strong enough that we do not practice this sin…that we do not even desire to do so
Conclusion • Indulging in gossip shows a blatant disregard for the feelings and reputation of others • We all need to guard our speech • Our talk will give us away, “betray us” • Can you say, “Shibboleth?”