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Understand the serious outcomes of bullying in school on victims' health, education, and future, highlighting solutions for teachers and parents. Learn intervention strategies and long-term implications to create safer school environments.
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Consequences of Being Victimized serpil tuti Developmental PsychologyBilkent University , Pre-PhD
The more serious forms of bullying can have very serious consequences. For the children being bullied, their lives are often made miserable for a considerable period of time.
Health Consequences of Being Bullied • Students may develop problems with anger management or self-destructive behavior. • Students may have unexplained physical ailments, such as headaches and stomachaches.
Long-Term Implications of Being Bullied - 1 • Children who are bullied often experience low self-esteem and depression even into adulthood
Long-Term Implications of Being Bullied - 2 • Children who are bullied perceive school as an unsafe place and are likely to miss more days of school than their peers, and as a result, their education is negatively affected.
Long-Term Implications of Being Bullied – 3 • Low achievement in school • Leaving school early • Legal or criminal troubles • Academic underperformance • Abuse of wife and children
Long-Term Implications of Being Bullied - 4 • Violence towards own children • Female bullies become mothers of bullies • Psychological problems, including stress, lasting into adulthood • Aggression
et’s browse the research... Students who are bullied consider school to be an unsafe, unhappy place. 7% of America’s 8th graders stay home at least once a month because of bullies. Students who are bullied are more isolated because their peers do not want to lose status by associating with them.
Longitudinal Study of Children Who are Bullied (Olweus, 1993) • 60% of boys who were bullies in middle school had at least one criminal conviction by age 24. • 40% had three or more convictions. • Bullies were 4 times as likely as peers to have multiple convictions.
hat can teachers do? - 1 Make sure that your students understand that you take bullying very seriously and that bullying is not allowed in your classroom or at the school. Students should know that you expect that they: • Should not bully others; • Should be helpful and kind to students who are bullied; • Should report bullying that they experience or witness to you or other adults at school.
hat can teachers do? - 2 • If possible, set aside some time during each school week to talk with your students about bullying and peer relations. • Learn as much as you can about bullying among children and youth and best practices for addressing bullying. • Take immediate action if you observe or suspect bullying.
hat can teachers do? - 3 Integrate bullying prevention themes across the curriculum. Think creatively of ways that you can weave bullying themes into language arts, social studies, or even math lessons!
hat can teachers do? - 4 Closely supervise your students and be watchful for possible signs of bullying among students in your class(es). Remember that children often are reluctant to report bullying to teachers, and some bullying can be subtle and difficult to detect.
hat can parents do? • First, focus on your child. “Be supportive and gather information about the bullying.” • Contact your child’s teacher or principal. • Help your child become more resilient to bullying.
Question - 1 B I don't think so...but seeing Mr. Bittner may have been the one good thing in her day! • Why did K.B. tell her mother that her day at school was "just great"? A) She didn't want her mom to worry about her. B) It was a great day, because she was excited to see Mr. Bittner. C) She probably thought her mom would get mad if she said she had a bad day. C I doubt it. Her mom probably would be upset and concerned. She definitely wouldn't be mad at K.B. A I agree.
Question - 2 • What might be a better way for K.B. to answer her mom's question about her day?A) Tell her mom she doesn't want to talk about it. B) Lie and tell her mom that she made new friends so her mom isn't worried about her. C) Tell her mom what really happened on her first day. C I think this is the best answer. K.B. probably will feel better just talking about her horrible day. Her mom seems really caring and may have some good ideas about how to help K.B. at the new school. B Hmmm. I don't think that's going to help K.B. any. Plus, her mom probably will find out that it isn't true. A That probably won't make K.B. feel any better. Her mom also won't know what to think. Are there any other good answers?
Question - 3 • If you were K.B., what would have been the worst part of your day? A) When Cassandra dissed her in front of the science class. B) When Cassandra and her friends wouldn't make room for her at the lunch table. C) When Cassandra pulled the ketchup joke on K.B. and everyone laughed at her. D) When she found the "teachers pet" sign on her locker. E) It's hard to say...It was all pretty horrible. A That was pretty bad-especially since the whole class laughed at her. B That must have been really hard on K.B. Has this ever happened to you or anyone you know? C She looked really embarrassed, didn't she? D Yeah. Especially since this was at the end of a long day of being bullied. EI agree!
Question - 4 AAlthough she wasn't as mean as Cassandra, Bibi, or Mimi, she did join in some of the bullying. For example, she helped to make sure that K.B. didn't sit with them at the lunch table, and she laughed at K.B. when she found the "teachers pet" sign on the locker. On the other hand…she did look kind of upset when K.B. sat on the ketchup packet. What could Melanie have done to make sure she helped and didn't hurt K.B.? B Hmmm. I don't think I agree. Although she did look kind of upset about K.B. sitting on the ketchup packets, Melanie did join in some of the bullying. For example, she helped to make sure that K.B. didn't sit with them at the lunch table, and she laughed at K.B. when she found the "teachers pet" sign on the locker. What could Melanie have done to make sure she helped and didn't hurt K.B.? • Did Melanie bully K.B.?A) Yes. B) No.
Question - 5 • Why do you think Melanie didn't laugh when K.B. sat on the ketchup packets in the lunch room?A) Maybe she didn't see it happen. B) She thought she'd get in trouble. C) She thought Cassandra and the other girls had gone too far in picking on K.B. ATake a look again. She saw it happen, alright BMaybe...but I think there's a better answer. C I think you're right. So what should she do about it?
References Craig, W. M. (1998). The relationship among bullying, victimization, depression, anxiety, and aggression in elementary school children. Personality & Individual Differences, 24, 123-130. Rigby, K. & Slee, P. T. (1993). Bullying among Australian school children: Reported behavior and attitudes toward victims. Journal of Social Psychology, 131, 615-627. Fekkes, M., Pijpers, F. I. M., & Verloove-VanHorick, S. P. (2004). Bullying behavior and associations with psychosomatic complaints and depression in victims. Journal of Pediatrics, 144, 17-22. www.stopbullying.com
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