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CAR CENTRE D’ACCUEIL DE LA ROSIERE. Sr. Alice VIVIEN. HISTORY INTRODUCTION 2009 : End of the year, Bishop Denis Wiehe , José Ah- Choon , some ex-drug addicts’ parents organized some meetings: How to help the drug addicts in Seychelles?
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CARCENTRE D’ACCUEIL DE LA ROSIERE Sr. Alice VIVIEN
HISTORY • INTRODUCTION • 2009: • End of the year, Bishop Denis Wiehe, José Ah-Choon, • some ex-drug addicts’ parents organized some meetings: • How to help the drug addicts in Seychelles? • Is there any other way to help those especially whose parents cannot afford to go overseas?
2010 18TH January: OPENING OF THE CENTRE(CAR) 19TH MARCH: Official opening and end of the residential period
What do we do? • Pre-residential program • Residential program • Reinsertion program
PRERESIDENTIAL PROGRAM • FIRST CONTACT • DETOX • SESSIONS
FIRST CONTACT Parents/partner/a relative accompany the sick person to the Centre (CAR) They meet the director/ an animator.
PRE-SESSION PROGRAM Two times a week: Tuesday & Friday from 4h30 to 6h00 p.m What is done? Conversation/listening/ questions No drug during the pre-session program Honesty Parent/relative/partner has his/her say.
The philosophy: • You can do it alone but you cannot help yourself alone. • One day at a time. • Criteria to enter the centre: • To come accompanied • Punctuality • Attendance • No lie/ be true to yourself and to others/ be honest • Number of sessions: at least a dozen
RESIDENTIAL PROGRAM • Who can enter? • Punctuality/regular attendance/ abstain from drug • How long? 9 weeks • The goals: • Help them to know how to live in society/ with their family/ to rediscover they are an individual able to love and feel loved. • To live clockwise • Give them opportunity to learn and unlearn the way they have been living while on drugs.
Rediscover their body/ their spiritual side and moral. • Everything needs to be explained to them • How? Through: A Time-table/briefing • Cleanliness/Tidiness • The rediscovery of God/High power in their life. • Occupation: They have been leading a life without aim, give them the joy of doing things. Not much free time.
Forgiveness • Counselling: One to one and group counselling • Sport/Yoga • sessions on sexuality/debates/ cultural activities • Outings/ swimming • Live drug free. How to enjoy themselves • Parents’ visit once a week on Saturday for 4 weeks then on Monday after the 5th week onwards.
Back home for one day: End of 5th Week on Saturday • Following week-end (6th one) 1 day: Saturday • 7th week-end: Saturday and Sunday • 8th week-end: Friday 2 pm to Monday Morning 8 am • 9th week: Friday: Graduation with mass and celebration
REINSERTION • Once a week, always accompanied, never alone but... • From 3 p.m. to 4.30 p.m • Check-in • Some sessions: Trust, how to behave/ difficulties encountered/ temptation/ craving etc... • Reinsertion for one year
Conditions to work with drug addicts: • Love them • Believe that they can change and that you can help them to bring changes to their life • Be prepared to work at odd hours • You work as a team and not alone. • We cannot say things once for all even if they are 60 and above…
A DRUG ADDICT/ ALCOHOLIC • Who is he? A person, an individual like you and me and the only difference is that she/he takes drugs or ALCOHOL. • She/he has become dependent on drugs and cannot get away from it. • She/he is a patient and needs to be looked at as a sick person. • Once one starts, she/he cannot stop. It becomes a need more than food. • She/he is the only one who can decide when she/he wants to stop. She/he can do it but not alone. • Sr Alice VIVIEN
There are many circumstances that lead someone to start taking drugs: • A problem • A disappointment at work/home/with friends/girlfriend/boy friend etc… • psychologically weak at one stage in her/his life. • Influence: “try it you will be a man”
Our reaction? • They want it. • They can stop • They should be put in prison • They are wrong • But when it is one of our friends/relatives etc. • Parents/friends relatives feel ashamed. This should not be known. • We don’t come forward. • We give money. We hide things that she/he is doing. We find excuses etc…