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The Family & the Home

The Family & the Home. Lesson 7: The Role of the Woman. Marriage & Family Roles. Marriages and families are failing all around the world because men, women, and children are not fulfilling their God-given roles and responsibilities

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The Family & the Home

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  1. The Family & the Home Lesson 7: The Role of the Woman

  2. Marriage & Family Roles • Marriages and families are failing all around the world because men, women, and children are not fulfilling their God-given roles and responsibilities • If we want the blessings of marriage and family (Psa. 128), we have to fulfill the divine roles & relationships given to us by God; not follow society’s worldly wisdom

  3. Marriage & Family Roles • The responsibilities have to be sorted out ahead of time like on a ball team or in business • There are important roles and relationships that must be identified and maintained in every marriage and family • There are four areas of responsibility: 1) spiritual (religious), 2) physical, 3) emotional (mental), and 4) social

  4. Marriage & Family Roles Marriage and family roles can be identified in three ways… • One’s role • One’s responsibility • One’s attitude

  5. The Wife: Her Position • Her position: “submission” (Gr. hupotasso = “to place or arrange (tasso) under (hupo); be subject to; to submit; to obey” • Scripture references: Gen. 3:16 (rule over you); Eph. 5:22 (be in subjection); Eph. 5:24 (is subject); Tit. 2:5 (being in subjection, obedient to their own husbands, KJV); 1 Pet. 3:1,5 (be(ing) in subjection)

  6. The Wife: Her Position • The two-fold, God-given reason for her submission is given by Paul in 1 Tim. 2:11-14 (see also 1 Cor. 11:3, 7-10; 2 Cor. 11:3) • The man was made first • The woman was deceived and transgressed (she took a leading role in Gen. 3:6)

  7. The Wife: Her Position What submission is not… • Submission is not limited to the wife (see charts below) • Submission does not imply inferiority (intellectually, educationally, emotionally, spiritually) • Submission does not imply inequality; a second-class status

  8. The Wife: Her Position • Submission does not mean she is a slave • Submission does not mean she never opens her mouth; has no opinion; gives no advice; has no decisions to make (1 Tim. 5:14; Tit. 2:4-5) • Submission does not mean she is a “wallflower” or “trophy” who is seen and never heard

  9. The Wife: Her Position What submission is … • Submission is mandatory (a command); not optional • Submission is voluntary in response to God’s command; not forced upon her by the man • Submission is continuous throughout the marriage

  10. The Wife: Her Position • Submission is a spiritual matter – “as unto the Lord” … “as is fitting in the Lord” • Submission is a positive, not negative role • Submission is a role that involves right attitudes (like respect) as well as right actions • Submission is extensive – “in everything” (the exception: if she is told to do something contrary to God’s word, Acts 5:29)

  11. The Wife: Her Position • Submission must be maintained by the woman; she must not surrender it or abandon it • Submission is simply the God-given role or responsibility; not given by men • Abuses of submission do not change the pattern of what God wants for the man in the home

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  21. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her spiritual responsibility to her husband: • Do not lead him away from God (Gen. 3:6; 1 K. 11:3-4; Neh. 13:26; Job 2:9; Acts 5:1-11; 1 Cor. 7:16) • Be virtuous toward him (Prov. 9:13; 11:16, 22; 12:4; 30:20-23; 31:10) • Show him how to fear the Lord (Prov. 31:30)

  22. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her spiritual responsibility to her husband: • Encourage him to be a leader (1 Tim. 3:1-13; especially verse 11) • Be in subjection (obedient) to him – “as unto the Lord … in everything” (Eph. 5:22-24) … “as is fitting in the Lord” (Col. 3:18) … “that the word of God be not blasphemed (Tit. 2:5) … “hoped in God” (1 Pet. 3:5)

  23. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her spiritual responsibility to her husband: • Do the Lord’s work together (Acts 18:24ff) • Set the proper example as a Christian (1 Pet. 3:1-2) • Be righteous together (1 Pet. 3:7; Lk. 1:5-6) • Pray together (1 Pet. 3:7; Judges 13:8ff)

  24. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her physical responsibility to her husband: • Help him suitably (Gen. 2:18, 24) • Leave and cleave to him (Gen. 2:24; Mt. 19:5; Eph. 5:31; Gen. 24:58-60) • Fulfill his sexual needs (Gen. 2:24; Prov. 5:18-19; S. of S. 4:12 - 5:1; 1 Cor. 7:1-5) • Be affectionate; kiss him (S. of S. 8:1)

  25. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her physical responsibility to her husband: • Be faithful and loyal to him (Prov. 2:17; 6:29; Mk. 10:12; Rom. 7:2-3; 1 Cor. 7:10, 39; 1 Tim. 5:9; Heb. 13:4)

  26. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her emotional responsibility to her husband: • Be one with him (Gen. 2:24) • Love him (Tit. 2:4; Gr. phileo = friendship love; tender affection; see S. of S. 8:6-7)

  27. The Wife: Her Responsibility • Her social responsibility to her husband: • Be his companion; live joyfully with him; dwell closely with him (Gen. 2:18; Deut. 24:5; Prov. 2:17; Eccl. 9:9; Mal. 2:14; 1 Cor. 7:34; 1 Pet. 3:7) • Do enjoyable things together (S. of S. 7:10-12)

  28. The Wife: Her Attitude • Her attitude toward her husband: • Do not despise him in your heart (2 Sam. 6:16) • Do not be contentious (Prov. 19:13; 21:9) • Be prudent (Prov. 19:14) • Do him good, not evil (Prov. 31:12)

  29. The Wife: Her Attitude • Her attitude toward her husband: • Fear (revere, respect, venerate) him (Eph. 5:33; 1 Pet. 3:2; Sarah called Abraham “lord”, verse 6) • Have inner godliness (1 Tim. 2:9,10) • Refuse old wives’ fables (1 Tim. 4:7) • Love him (Tit. 2:4)

  30. The Wife: Her Attitude • Her attitude toward her husband: • Be sober-minded (sound, controlled) and chaste (pure) toward him (Tit. 2:5; 1 Pet. 3:2) • Be meek (mild, gentle, submissive) and quiet (still, peaceful) in spirit (1 Pet. 3:4) • Be holy, set apart, consecrated (1 Pet. 3:5)

  31. Review Questions 1. What position does the woman have in marriage? 2. What are the responsibilities of the woman to her husband? 3. What attitudes must the woman have as a wife?

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