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“It is Better Not to Marry”. Matthew 19:10. Matthew 19:1-12 and Mark 10:1-12. These passages are very important for understanding the subject of marriage and divorce. The passage mentioned by the Jews to Jesus was Deuteronomy 24:1-4 .
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“It is Better Not to Marry” Matthew 19:10
Matthew 19:1-12 and Mark 10:1-12 • These passages are very important for understanding the subject of marriage and divorce. • The passage mentioned by the Jews to Jesus was Deuteronomy 24:1-4. • The Jews used that passage to warrant divorce for any cause.
"If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry." Matt 19:10 • Jesus and Moses were never in conflict with one another. Both were in harmony with God’s formula at the beginning, which was that one man and one woman should marry - and stay married (Gen. 2:24) • God’s marriage laws are strict • Marriage is a great blessing, but it must be taken seriously.
Can I follow God’s marriage laws? • Jesus taught that divorce was allowed only in the case of fornication – Matthew 19:9 • Divorce for any other reason results in adultery when there is remarriage • Which is what Jesus taught in Matthew 5:32 • To marry a divorced (put away) person results in adultery
Can I follow God’s marriage laws? • Jesus taught that divorce was allowed only in the case of fornication – Matthew 19:9 • Any divorce must be on those grounds specified by Jesus... • A divorce for any other grounds... • Is an attempt to separate what God has joined together • Results in a remarriage where people commit adultery - Matthew 19:9;Mark 10:11-12
Can my mate follow God’s marriage laws? • Who Can Be Married? • One who has never been married – Matthew 19:4-5 • One whose mate is dead – Romans 7:3 • One who puts away a mate for fornication – Matthew 19:9 • Those reconciling – 1Corinthians 7:11 • Find out early • Some may be tempted to ignore God’s law • But Jesus speaks of some foregoing marriage for the sake of Heaven -Matthew 19:12
Can I follow God’s family laws? • Can I leave my father and mother? – Matthew 19:5 • Can I (men) love as Christ loved the church? • Ephesians 5… • Can I (women) follow this man and submit to him? • Can I teach my children to serve the Lord? • Ephesians 6:1-4
Do I understand commitment? • The example of Ruth – Ruth 1:16-17 • Ruth makes a vow; • Marriage is a covenant –Malachi 2:14
“If such is the case…It is better not to marry…” • God’s teaching on marriage is plain and clear. • His words have not changed. • Contrast the reaction of many today... • The disciples of Jesus: • Many people today: • Many people will marry • But if we can’t follow God’s laws… it is better not to marry!
“It is Better Not to Marry” Matthew 19:10