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Bullying. Kitchen Cyberbullying. Did you know?. Bullying is the most common form of violence in our society. Between 15%-30% of students are bullies or victims of bullies. 160,000 kids skip school everyday because they fear being bullied.
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Did you know? • Bullying is the most common form of violence in our society
Between 15%-30% of students are bullies or victims of bullies.
160,000 kids skip school everyday because they fear being bullied
8% of students miss 1 day of school per month in fear of bullies.
“Bullycide” is becoming a tragic result of repeated and relentless bullying.
75% of the students who carried out school shootings from 1974 – 2000 were victims of bullying.
Bullying and the Gifted Child • 67% of gifted students had experienced bullying by eighth grade • 16% defined themselves as bullies • 29% had violent thoughts
What does bullying look like? Elementary • Name calling—teasing • Ostracizing victims • Physical (hitting, pushing, tripping) • Verbal threats • Stealing/taking items from victims
What does bullying look like? Middle School/High School • Rumors or gossip • Sexual Harassment • Slam books • Texting • Facebook • Message Boards
Gender Makes a Difference Boys Girls Girls tend to use more subtle bullying tactics: Ostracize or use relational aggression Teasing verbally or through note writing, facebook or texting Spreading rumors • Boys often use direct and aggressive bullying tactics • Physical • Verbal threats • Name calling and verbal teasing
Warning Signs in a Passive Victim • Psychosomatic symptoms may develop to avoid school—stomach ache • Anxious • Sensitive and shy • Student stays close to the teacher instead of peers
Warning Signs in Passive Victims • Insecure • Violence or victimization shows up in writing • Excluded by peers • Significant change in behavior toward school.
A Word about the Bully • Myth • Bullies have low self esteem • Fact • Studies have shown that most bullies are popular and are leaders in a group
Warning Signs of a Bully • Behaves aggressively • Undermines authority • Lashes out with putdowns • Lacks sympathy and empathy • Impulsive • Engages in other anti-social behavior
Strategies to Combat Bullying From www.bullystoppers.com • The Poker Face • Selective Ignoring • Be Assertive • Don’t be an easy target • Use Comeback lines—not insults
Comeback Lines • From www.bullystoppers.com • You’re the king of putdowns. Congrats • Thank you, that was the look I was going for. • Bullystoppers.com has 101 comeback lines
www.bullystopper.com/links Highly Recommended Bullying LinksWired SafetyBully PoliceBullies to BuddiesBullying.orgIn Memory of Jared HighBullying OnlineModel School Bullying ProgramsStatistics from Wellesley research project Bullying Resource KitStop Hazing Youth Crime WatchGLSEN (Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network)The Bullying 4-1-1Olweus Bullying Prevention ProgramUS Dept. of Education Office of Civil RightsFree Advice on Juvenile LawFind a School AttorneyCourt Decisions on School Bullying
Bibliography Brame, J. & French, L Bullying. ppthttp://www.powershow.com/view/10a3dNjMwN/Bullying_flash_ppt_presentation Peterson, J.S 2006. Study: Gifted Children Especially Vulnerable to Effects of Bullying. Purdue University. http://news.uns.purdue.edu/html4ever/2006/060406.Peterson.bullies.html Hoagies Gifted. Bullies and Bullying Resources. http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/bullies.htm Letson, NJ SAC LPC, T. Bullystoppers.com. www.bullystopper.com