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Human Relationship. N. Gokulmuthu Sonim Technologies. Core of life. Inevitable Fundamental identity To be a good human being to yourself and others. Basic policy. No one is a stranger. Everyone is your own. Accept the relationship. Don’t assume you have a choice
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Human Relationship N. Gokulmuthu Sonim Technologies
Core of life • Inevitable • Fundamental identity To be a good human beingto yourself and others.
Basic policy No one is a stranger. Everyone is your own.
Accept the relationship • Don’t assume you have a choice • Just like parents, brothers, sisters • you don’t choose them • All relationships are forever
Yourself • First human relationship • Know and love yourself deeply • Spend time with yourself • Be comfortable with yourself • If you ever get bored, you need to fix your relationship with yourself
Keep it simple and pure • Don’t expect “something” out of relationships • Bad relationships • Insurance agents • Multilevel marketing • Don’t vulgarize a relationship
Keep money out Man makes money. Money does not make man. • Choose the relationship over wealth • Arjuna and Duryodhana claiming Krishna and his army
People are imperfect • Easy to accept virtues • Accept the person as a whole Hate the sin. Love the sinner. • No two people are alike • Agree to disagree
People change • Allow people to grow • Accept changes in principles and personality • Every person has infinite potential • Freshness in old relationships
Communicate - truly • It is not important what you communicate • Communicate openly • Don’t try to create an impression • Nothing can be a secret forever • Be whole and integral
Listen • Active listening • Feel the person. Don’t merely hear words. • Look for the idea and emotion behind the words • Words are a poor medium of communication. Go beyond the words.
Believe • Have faith in people • People are fundamentally good It is better to get cheated occasionally than to be suspicious of everyone. Don’t attribute to malice what can be explained away as foolishness.
Overcome barriers • Basic nature to be protective of the meek and fight the stubborn • Break ice by asking a favor • Give up your ego - let the other person dominate • Give a cosy feeling to everyone – don’t force people into corners
Give • Just give. Don’t look for returns • Give money, effort, knowledge, emotion, ego • Take responsibility of your actions • Make everyone part of the show • Own failures, distribute success
Relationships • One of the most beautiful aspects of human life • A president of a country tying the shoe lace of his granddaughter • Motherhood – the grandest and the basis of all relationships • Eldest daughter-in-law in a joint family • Nurse Vs patient, Father telling a story
Feeling as faculty • Paper folding, solving a puzzle • Importance of fine arts, literature • Kalidasa, Shakespeare, Ramayana • Rama Vs Kaikeyi • Rama & Sugreeva Vs Angada • Hanuman Vs Sita • Kumbakarna Vs Vibheesana
Basic policy No one is a stranger. Everyone is your own.