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Discover the keys to unlocking lasting joy and contentment in Martin E.P. Seligman's Positive Psychology approach. Learn how cultivating personal strengths, virtues, and mindful habits can enhance happiness levels. Explore the impact of external circumstances on happiness and practical steps to maximize well-being.
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Authentic Happiness – Positive Psychology Martin E. P. Seligman
Why bother to be happy? • Your thinking is faster and broader • You have (generally) better health & longevity • You are more productive • You build social resources better • Your thinking is generally more tolerant, creative, constructive and non-defensive. • You tolerate pain better
What External Circumstances Make us Happy? • Money – once above a certain level, no. • Marriage – robustly related to happiness • Social life – yes • Negative emotion? – complex • Age – no. Intensity of emotion changes with age. • Health – generally, no. • Education, climate, race, gender – no • Religion - yes
What circumstances will maximize happiness? • Live in a wealthy democracy, not an impoverished dictatorship (strong effect) • Get married (robust, but not causal effect) • Avoid negative events & negative emotions (moderate effect) • Acquire a rich social network (robust effect, but perhaps not causal) • Get religion (moderate effect).
What circumstances make little difference? • Making more money (Once above a certain comfort level, not important) • Stay healthy (subjective health, not objective health matters) • Get as much education as possible (no effect) • Change your race or move to a sunnier climate (no effect).
Authentic Happiness in the Present • Changing thinking patterns • Identifying pleasures and gratifications (reinforcers) • Developing strengths and virtues that increase the levels of gratification in our lives.
Authentic Happiness in the Present • Pleasures • The bodily pleasures • The higher pleasures • Enhancing the pleasures • Habituation • Savoring • Mindfulness
Authentic Happiness in the Present • Gratifications • Involve total absorption, suspension of consciousness, flow • About enacting personal strength and virtues.
Flow • The task is challenging and requires skill • We concentrate • There are clear goals • We get immediate feedback • We have deep effortless involvement • There is a sense of control • Our sense of self vanishes • Time stops
Flow – research findings • ‘Low flow’ teenagers • Are ‘mall’ kids • Watch TV a lot
Flow – research findings • ‘High flow’teenagers have hobbies • Engage in sport • Spend time on homework • Have deeper social ties • Are high on most measures of psychological well-being • Think their ‘low flow’ peers are having more fun • Do not perceive their engagement as enjoyable
Strengths and Virtues • The Virtues: • Wisdom and knowledge • Courage • Love and humanity • Justice • Temperance • Spirituality and transcendence
Strengths and Virtues • The strengths linked with Wisdom & Knowledge • Curiosity • Love of Learning • Judgement • Ingenuity • Social Intelligence • Perspective
Strengths and Virtues • The strengths linked with Courage • Valour • Perseverance • Integrity
Strengths and Virtues • The strengths linked with Humanity & Love • Kindness • Loving
Strengths and Virtues • The strengths linked with Justice • Citizenship • Fairness • Leadership
Strengths and Virtues • The strengths linked with Temperance • Self-control • Prudence • Humility
Strengths and Virtues • The strengths linked with transcendence • Appreciation of beauty • Gratitude • Hope • Spirituality • Forgiveness • Humour • Zest
Errata from the web-site www.authentichappiness.org • Satisfaction with Life Scale • Signature Strength survey • Children’s Strengths Survey • Optimism Survey